help please!!!! need advice ASAP?

Question

i talk to this guy online sometimes. and sometimes we have boring conversations. what should i say that will make him excited? or get going? terms? phrases? he likes me and i like him, but we need a good conversation starter. any advice?

Answer 1

Just tell him how you feel. Honesty is always the best policy. Maybe he's just not sure of himself.

Answer 2

Well, if you have long and boring conversations what does that say about the spark between you? Online is the worst way to talk. Way too cold. Phone is better, then even the pauses can be sexy. Anyway, keeping the conversation going and excited is his job as much as yours. You could try talking about how boring the conversation is and ask him if he has any suggestions to enliven things!

Answer 3

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Answer 4

"How about them Cub's?"

I know this exquisite lady, and she could read the phone book or the dictionary and make it interesting and intelligent, and sexy.

It's not in the words, it's in how you mean them.
Or, It's not what you say, it's how you say it.

and not all conversations will be stunners all the time.
Some people can read the classifieds from the newspaper out loud and draw a enraptured audience at their words, it is tougher on line, because you can't "hear" the tone of voice, the inflection, the delivery.

If you just need to keep the conversation moving, (or moving in a particular direction), ask questions that can't be answered yes or no, that require something of an explanation, (though this works better in person)[give credit to A] If you desire to steer the conversation, there are many very intelligent ways to be stimulating conversationally and otherwise. Best wishes, ah, searching wikipedia for sexual innuendo, (if that is your desire)
may yield some ideas.

And just for reference: Sexual Innuendo, is one.

Answer 5

Believe it or not, not everything is going to be fascinating and "fun." Life, for the most part, is pretty much going to work, paying the bills, and doing janitorial chores.

Of course sometimes your conversations are boring. But remember, you have never met this guy - IF he is indeed a guy. You really have no idea with whom you are communicating. It could be a 75-year old trucker with red hair named Irving. Anybody can say anything on the internet - that's why it's so dangerous. You don't give your age but I hope you are not underage.

Answer 6

Ask questions and lots of them. you can start with "what if" type questions and then move on from there.
For example: What if you could have dinner with anyone in history, who would it be? or What if you knew you were going to die tomorrow, what would you do?
You can find a lot out about someone with these general type of questions. But be sure you are ready to answer some questions yourself.

Answer 7

Play 'what if'

what if cars disappeared
what if broccoli was pink
what if I kissed your elbow

OR the Alphabet game- take turns adding to the list

we are going on a trip(or whatever scenario you want), and we are taking
apples, beers, condoms, daisies


This one can get pretty provocative if you have a naughty mind:)

Answer 8

Find out what his interests are and if you don't know anything about what he likes do some research and then the next time you talk you'll sound knowledgeable about what he likes. Chemistry will do the rest. Good luck.

Answer 9

He must not find them too boring as he keeps talking to you. If you are really bored with his conversations though, perhaps he isn't the one to talk to. Talk about what you may have in common and things you both like. Such as music, movies, books etc.

Answer 10

Send him a link to your blog or web page in case you'd like him to know more about you. After all once he sees pictures and listed hobbies he may be able to find a way to chat with you on a deeper level.

Always,


Jaime

Answer 11

Like small talk, sexy talk, or what? What kinda of conversation you looking for post mroe details and ill edit my answer