My fisrt love, one of the person I care about so much. And twenty months of love, has cheated on me through out the whole thing.Its WAS A LIE!!She never has or will love me. I just want someone to show me some love. Is that so much to ask. She cheated on my before and I let her come back to me.She never had sex with me but she did with her ex, one of the people she cheated on me with.After she was over him. she always has treated my like ****. Everytime I try to let her go she always comes back and I let her hoping she would start acting like she cared about me, but never. The only thing I have are dreams that she did care about me.TWENTY MONTH OF TEARS AND PAIN! Now that she s over him I thought she would act like she cared. But now she meet one of my old friends and says his important to her and im not. Ive been trying for twenty month and im not important. Im so hurt. I dont know what to do. i just wana die. I dont want to deal with da pain no more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-02 15:04:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are other people out there that would love to have someone just like you, and trust me on that. This seems like all there is and the truth is that it ain't man, it ain't the end. There are billions of people out there, and I understand that she might feel like the only one, but chances are she is not. Take your heart, and use it somewhere else. Do not take her back this time, and just move on. Live above her influence and find the one that was made for you. Soon, all the pain and all the sorrow will be over, and you'll realize how much better off without her you really are, and trust me, you are better off from the looks of it.
Listen to this song. Please.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=OBX9IcyiUaU
God Bless. Feel free to email if you need to talk.
2007-11-02 15:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are feeling is true angst .We have all felt it at one time or another espcially after being hurt and cheated on.like we cant go on.We want to die.Take control of yourself and from this day forward act as if you are your own best freind.If your freind came to you with this problem what would you say? What would you do to help your freind? I know it hurts but this very day .Plan a little day trip to go somewhere maybe just for an afternoon it could be a trendy tourist town or a bookstore opening or even a concert.Focus on being your own freind and planning this trip all week. Think about what your going to do on it.Maybe check out a game or a book or a cd.Maybe plan where you will eat.Dont worry about going alone unless you are a minor.Sometimes its good to be alone.After a while the pain does go away.You remember how you thought about killing yourself and you think I cant beleive I almost did that over that person! Plan a trip.It can be cheap just go where there are other people.even a mall but not one you have been to before.Do something diffrent,check out crotchrockets or fishing boats or electric guitars. just look around. Do it every week.It will get better just be your own freind.best wishes
2007-11-02 22:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting your time. How can you love someone who even cheated on you once??? I'm pretty sure after the first time she cheated on you, you lost some of that trust you had in her. So already the "amount of love" went down. And you find out she has cheated multiple times. I know its extremely hard to get over her...but the best thing to do is to just drop all contact from her. Of course you might think about her here and there...and thats perfectly normal but you need to let her go and move on...she is no good for you.
2007-11-02 22:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by mike j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now its your turn. don't let her into your life any more. that is the first thing you have to do. you can make it and find someone much nicer then her. i mean it you are probably a good looking guy she was using. well now its your turn to look and find the right person. shes nothing but a user and you have learnt that. so now you will find the dram of your life and when you do you will say how dumb you were to be thnking of that you aren't worth much. hey each person is related in part to God and therefore each of us is worth something. you need to get a new lease on life and get moving and meet the special one for you take care and good luck
2007-11-02 22:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋