dinner and i puked on the dinner table.there was my father and sister.my mom is really upset with me.she's not talking to me.what should i do ?
2007-11-02 14:55:56 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Stop drinking.
2007-11-02 14:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Richard F 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you are of age to drink, you didn't say.
Completely drunk, Mom should have sent you to your room without food. Next morning, giving you her house rules, which you need to abide by, if under age or move out (if of legal age) and can't handle the rules. Doesn't sound like Mom was ever intoxicated in her life, she needs to know, never put food ontop a booze filled stomach. Give her a couple of days, then sit down for a chat. You both did wrong, you could have warned her you might get sick, or bluntly said "puke". Seems to be a new experience for both of you, and what an experience it was!
2007-11-02 15:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Gramma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not mention how old you are, and if you had permission to go out with your Friends? So, here is my Answer to you, I think that your Mom, made a huge mistake when she made you have Dinner with the family, everyone knows that when someone is drunk, the farthest thing you keep away from them is Food, so she was at fault here. But,it was also your fault because you should have known better, then to come to your house that Drunk, so what I think you should do is ask for Forgiveness, and tell your Parents you learned your Lesson, and will never do that again, and Please! Mean it. I hope everything comes back to normal with your Parents and Sister. Good Luck, and I hope everything works out for the better.
2007-11-02 15:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to act right. Tell her that you are sorry and tell her that you won't be that irresponsible again. Friends and drinking are for when you are out of your mom and dad's house. They have the right to have you obey their rules as long as they are feeding and clothing you and you are their child.....she loves you and I am sure she is worried and very upset and feels let down by your behavior....you need to start to think about that and see that she is looking out for you. That is terrible and if you had to get drunk why were you coming home to have dinner with the family? I see you as young and very immature. Do the apology thing and mean it...everyone needs to hear it. The friends you have are a bad influence on you....steer clear of the alcohol parties. You can ruin your life really easy by making very stupid decisions, like getting in the car with a drive who is drunk and getting killed. It impairs your judgment and you do things that you wouldn't when sober...not good!!!You can shorten your life and get diseases and live in the gutter if you start and continue down that road. I feel for you but more for mom. Do the right thing, make better decisions please.
2007-11-02 15:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one, don't come home drunk anymore. Of course your mom is upset, as she should be. Wait until the right time to tell her how you feel, that is assuming you are truly sorry and won't do it again. A mother is a mother, if she knows that you are sincere about your regrets and believes in your plan to change, then you will be forgiven. And all will be well again.
2007-11-02 15:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by Beth B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are worried that your mum is upset with you shows that you have respect and love for your mother and just made a bad decision. Apologise to her and tell her what you've learnt from this experience and explain that hurting her makes you feel bad.
Basically, communicate like an adult, act like one (don't get so drunk that you puke) and she will treat you like one.
Good Luck :)
2007-11-02 15:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by Imogen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Akward and very uncomfortable, I'm sure.
If she knows you were drinking, pull her aside privately and apologize to her profusely. Let her know that you are aware that your behavior was completely unacceptable and you know you were in the wrong by being out drinking.
She'll appreciate- even if only a little bit- your honesty and courage to fess up. Good luck.
2007-11-02 15:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are too young and irresponsible to drink. Find some other friends so you don't feel like it's cool to get drunk. Obviously you can't handle booze. Wait until you are LEGAL and then if you want to drink, knock yourself out. In the meantime, apologize to your family and stay away from the booze!
2007-11-02 15:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think about not drinking. It ages you, it encourages you to make the wrong type of friends and it get's you in trouble. Was it fun? Take a camera with you next time and have someone film you, and you be the judge.
2007-11-02 15:00:03 · answer #9 · answered by cprucka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to start drinking on a regular basis. This way your alcohol tolerance will increase, thus reducing the chance of puking.
2007-11-02 15:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize and accept your punishment. If you are not 21 stop drinking. If you are 21 and you want to continue on this path i would consider moving out.
2007-11-02 15:01:15 · answer #11 · answered by Gary N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋