Usually I'm not this hung up about a girl but after we got together, she now occupies ALL of my daily thoughts. It's excruciatingly time consuming because I can't seem to focus on anything else.
I found the shirt I wore the night I was with her and it made me even more crazy...there wasn't any perfume or smell etc but it's like this chemical thing she's all over it! I know 2 things that I'm pretty sure about -she picked me up and was pretty crazy about me but she's not one of those girls who's clingy and wants every detail so she can see me again. She's more reserved and confident in herself (not in a vain way) so I don't know if I should call her now or give it a few more days because she might think I'M desperate and i'm not usually like that but the distance is killing me...i HAVE to see her again.
2007-11-02 14:45:32 · 20 answers · asked by Lloyd S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would just call her!, I mean you woulden't want her thinking your a jerk and that you didn't really like her. Or that you are one of those guys who is just like "Yea she was hot, but I will get back to her some other time." I mean, she may feel the same way about you too...sounds like you had a pretty good time with eachother, especially if you feel that crazy about her! My advice to you is 'Call her!!' =D hope I helped you!!
2007-11-02 14:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her, you either need to know that it is going someplace or that it isn't. If you are playing games, worrying about the time and how long to wait, she may think you don't care. Now, calling her may not let you know what she is thinking but it will let you know what she isn't thinking, she will talk to you and say something, or she won't....I say I'd rather know if someone is thinking of me all the time and I am on their mind that much. At least I feel like I am wanted. If she is soooo cool that she doesn't need that at all. I might be worried about her being a good person to be with for any length of time. I know the hormone and love thing is a great motivator and I know guys and girls form attachments fast when you are young but you need to know and so does she then you are being honest which is really important at all ages in a relationship or not.
2007-11-02 21:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what is it with guys and the 3 day rule or is it two day. I happen to think if the guy calls me the day after he sees me that would be good. If a guy hasn't called me i would think that he isn't interested in me and then i would move on. If you like the girl give her a call.
2007-11-02 21:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by SummerRain 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her and if you get the sense she thinks your being clingy play it cool and be like I got to go I got some things I need to do. In the time your waiting, she could find interest in someone else.
2007-11-02 21:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by a 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
According to my girlfriend there are "rules" for these. If he calls the day after he's desperate. Within 2-4 days he likes you. 5 or more, he thinks of you as a backup plan.
I say, go for it. She sounds great.
2007-11-02 21:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by Aaron M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would call her and invite her to do something with you, an afternoon at the public library, a movie, or to come over and play a X box game with you. Tell her you miss her smile! That's all it takes to make someone smile!
2007-11-02 21:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by darlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not too soon to call. Three day is the maximum. 5 days is too long. 1 day is too soon, so three is prefect. It's smack right in the middle and the way you're going about her like feeling for her I think you really do need to talk to her, so I hope you do call her. Good luck and hope I helped.
2007-11-02 21:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by just another girl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think 3 days is perfect... personally if a guy leaves it more than 5 days and then calls i begin to think that prehaps he didnt get a better offer during the week.
its the weekend, see if she wants to catch up for a coffee or casual drink, so you can get to know eachother a little better. Lust is a crazy thing but youll only know her true feelings if you talk to her and get to know eachother better...just be awear that feelings arnt always mutual.
2007-11-02 21:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by ali.mcdonald 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call her and set something up!!!!! the rule of thumb is to wait 3 or 4 days. you've already done that so make the call. it's not too soon. calm your nerves before calling and be confident.
2007-11-02 21:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by Intuitive B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say that you have tickets/invitation to an event and don't have anyone to come with you on short notice, but she was the person that you thought it would be cool to go with. Then it won't make you look desperate. Oh!
2007-11-02 21:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by Peter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋