My boyfriend and I were about to have sex and I said we should get a condum he totally went soft and it took forever for him to get erect again. He had a hard time everytime after that that we had sex. Is it me or the condum?
2007-11-02 14:42:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's his performance anxiety.
2007-11-02 14:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Class 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He`s got a complex now every time you go to put a condom on him it brings back the memory of the first time when it went soft. Do something different like have him put it on instead. Once he gets past the memory his confidence will come back and the trouble will pass.
2007-11-02 15:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither its him --- seriously ---- for a male to lose an erection during sex and then not be able to get it back indicates either a physical problem or total lock of interest --- he needs to go to a doctor and you need (im sorry to say) a new boyfriend --- one that finds you desirable all the time ---- best wishes
2007-11-02 14:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's you. You are treating condom use like short arm inspection rather than as an integral part of foreplay.
That would turn any male limp. Use your mind.. that's
what its for!
Good Luck,
The Eternal Squire
2007-11-02 14:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by The Eternal Squire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Protect yourself. If you know you are frustrated and it's been happening more than once... well.. i guess you know the solution. Break up. It will soon get cold (winter) and you will need a man to keep you warm.
2007-11-02 14:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by foxy123magenta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. It's him. He should speak with his doctor. Also it's spelled condom.
2007-11-02 14:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by snowbaal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋