My bff told my crush that I like him, i told her 2, he was going 2 class when she told him he said "Oh, so should I be on the lookout?" My friend was taken aback cause she didnt mean it or say it like that at all. (I should mention this guy has never had a gf/kissed a girl) but for about a month after this (I gave up) I caught him staring at me twice, he has like randomly touched my shoulders twice (he is not a touchy feely person- hes never touched me before) Once when we hung out with people he offered me food and said "i never see you anymore" and said "we should do this" although he hasnt followed up on it. Hes acted akward. his bff showed me a text on his cell phone where a drunk friend said something about him needing to get a date and he looked at me in the eyes then i guess to see my reaction? 1 time he was a bit drunk (i dont really know, he always does this thing where he has 2 drinks and "pretends" to be drunk) and he flirted a bit, asked me if I thought he was cute.
2007-11-02 14:39:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
idk, my friends that night were sure he liked me, I guess cause he doesnt usually flirt while drunk. They encouraged the whole thing. When I randomly left that night, he left me a voicemail saying "Hope you got back to your room OK ill IM you tomorrow" and he did right away the next morning.hes never done these things before and he was def. sober then. problem is,his friends have badgered him about me after that night and told him Ive liked him and called him oblivious. he told them he doesnt have feelings 4 me. they arent lyin because they wanted us to get 2gether, even though they were very immature they had good intentions. He never told them about the messages or the incident where my friend told him I liked him and he usually tells his friends everything. He doesnt try to talk to me although he didnt before unless I initiated it and I havent caught him lookin at me anymore. I havent seen him for a while because of school, so Im thinking if he did like me he’s over it now.
2007-11-02 14:41:00 · update #1
Moving on sounds like a good idea right? Im asking cause Ive had a lot of guys become interested in me this year, so its not like I need him, but for some reason I keep thinking about him. Sorry so long- I wanted to give as much info as possible.
2007-11-02 14:41:15 · update #2
how is he being cold? he likes you girl; why don't you just flirt back; whats the risk? he obviously seems to like you back, take a chance!
2007-11-02 14:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by Artemis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what I think based on what I read.
First of all, if he's never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl, he probably doesn't even know how to start the whole thing.
So, he finds out you like him and he doesn't know what to do with it. He's expressing obvious interest in you, but this whole thing is brand new to him. So, if you like him, you're going to have to be patient with him. He's not going to be as bold as you like...especially since he found out you liked him first.
The guy is scared about what to do because he doesn't know what to do.
However, he's been getting increasingly bold with time. Just give him a little more time and keep showing him you like him.
2007-11-02 14:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Purple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough to get guys to be open or flirt because we're lazy mother f*ckers! If this guy is flirting and making an effort even in the slightest you should give him a chance
2007-11-02 14:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Peter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels like he's making a clean start up, merely being friendly and seeing the way it is going.. no one on the cyber web can assist you critically simply by fact their are many aspects that selection it that throughout common terms you and him could understand. asserting he's calling for relationship could desire to be him telling himself he's going to bypass on, or in step with hazard he merely is, it may desire to contain you too inspite of the indisputable fact that, yet he won't understand despite in case you like to be with him so he's leaving his recommendations open.. It doesnt say "A relationship" yet, that could desire to be worse.. I did that once as quickly as I left a woman, i mentioned involved in a relationship simply by fact i grew to become into attempting to tell myself i grew to become into over her, which i wasn't. He could desire to be in 2 minds additionally.. talk to him :) i'm hoping i've got Helped.. Xxx
2016-10-03 05:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isn't that into you or you two would have already gone out
2007-11-02 14:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry but I don't get it. Please use better words.thanks. then ill change my answer. thnx. =)
2007-11-02 14:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋