ok so me and my bff have been friends for like 5 years since 7th grade.and she switched schools this yr..so one day she told me she was gong to hmoecoming with this guy and i 'thought" he was emo so i told my other friend this and somehow it got back to my bff...well now she thinks i was talkin crap about her and her new friends and now she wont talk to me...is it my fault????my other friends dont think so...tell me please
2007-11-02 13:50:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to the person who said the thing about retarted(sorry if i cant spell it haha)my little brother actully also has autism too.i didn't in any way mean to offend anyone,i too get mad when people use this term as a "negative"thing.im so so sorry
2007-11-02 14:59:37 · update #1
No she is being sensitive is all. teenage girls tend to do this, if memory serves me correctly.
BTW...as a mother of a child with autism, I am offended that you use the phrase "retarded" to describe this situation.....especially since YOU didn't spell it right, but my son most likely could.
2007-11-02 13:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not your fault. Your BFF must not consider you her BFF if she is mad at you over such a silly thing. It's really strange, but when a guy enters the picture, it can really test a friendship. The person I thought was my best friend in high school treated me very poorly when I gave her PROOF that her bf was cheating on her. I didn't even tell her until I had proof. She chose to believe him. They broke up after high school. Our friendship never recovered though there were a few attempts during the last part of our senior year and the first couple of years of college. It just was never the same. Plus you guys have the stress of your friendship since you no longer go to the same school. Turns out, my BFF was someone I met after I graduated from college. She's the best friend I ever had. If your friendship cannot recover, just know that your true friends will be revealed over time.
2007-11-02 21:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may not have intended it the way it turned out, but you were gossiping about your friend and that's generally a bad idea. She's entitled to like whomever makes her happy without interference from friends. Real friends would be happy for her that she found someone to connect with...and "retarded" is spelled this way.
2007-11-02 20:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wether you thought he was emo or not you really should have kept your mouth shut, because who cares who she choses to take to homecoming?!
what buisness is it of yours to tell other people, its called gossiping dear,
I suggest you appologise to your friend big time.
and that you got caught up in gossip world and have now come back,
ever heard of chinese whispers? what you say to one person is always something different to what they wil hear.
If your not saying something positive about her or who shes taking then it aint good
2007-11-02 20:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like a simple misunderstanding to me
2007-11-02 20:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah it is. Say your sorry and support her no matter what.
2007-11-02 20:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by running for president in 2016 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget her she is a tool
2007-11-02 20:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by The Unborn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, you were just saying what was on your mind
2007-11-02 20:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by Boston 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋