i mean she's a nice girl and everything but i don't want her there... and she's not a total loser but like her friends always go to a classroom and skip lunch but i don't want her sitting with me. my friends who sit with me allowed her to sit with us which sucks soo... any ideas?
2007-11-02 11:31:08 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Yes, I have a solution.
You don't want to sit with her for petty reasons,
So get your butt up an move to a snobby table where they discriminate against people. Hurrah to your friends who let her sit down. They are much bigger people than you are.
What are you thinking?
g-day!
2007-11-02 11:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by Kekionga 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
You don't own the table or the lunchroom, so you have no right to kick her out. If you don't like her, then don't pay attention to her. If you really don't want her to join you, then before she sits down, politely say, "I'm sorry, we're having a private conversation, would you excuse us?" If your friends overrule, though, you'll just have to deal with it.
Look at it this way - it doesn't really take anything from you if she joins the group, and it never hurts to have another friend.
2007-11-02 11:40:07 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you are outnumbered. Have you talked to your friends about it? I think if you say something then one of your friends is going to override you and make you feel stupid. If I were you I would just bit my lip and live with it. What is it that you don't like so much? If she bothers you that much, is there somewhere else you can sit? There is no nice way and you might end up in some cat fights with your friends. Just ignore her and mind your own business when she is there.
2007-11-02 11:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by mageta8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please add more details. I want to know why you are kicking "a nice girl" off your lunch table. What did she do that she deserves to be forced to skip lunch? And why does it suck so much to sit with a nice girl that your friends agreed to sit with?
2007-11-02 12:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I suggest you get off your high horse. There is no assigned seating in the lunchroom, therefore she has a right to sit where she likes.
You sound like a complete snot. One of these days you'll find out that what goes around comes around. You don't have to like everyone all the time, but there is never a good excuse to not be, at the very least, gracious. She is causing no harm to you, why would you want to harm her?
2007-11-02 11:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by slushpile reader 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but you are the definition of petty and immature. I was one of the popular people in school and if I would have been witness to what you are attempting, I would have humiliated you in front of the whole lunchroom and outed you as a poser. Grow up.
2007-11-02 12:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by Parkie21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure that you can do it nicely. You will have to be brutal and tell her that you personally do not want her to sit with you and your friends. This will create bad feelings between the two of you and also possibly with your friends. If she's not unbearable why not just live with it?
2007-11-02 11:41:05 · answer #7 · answered by St N 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why don't you want her sitting with you? neway, wow, u r totally going to make her feel sooooo very bad and most likely scar her emotionally for just about her whole school career, but if you gotta do it you gotta do it. it's like ripping a band aid off you just got to do quick and straight to the point. you don't have to be mean about it you just ask her nicely not to eat with you anymore
2007-11-02 11:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by Hey U, Yeah U..Get over here 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well probably the reason why you dont want her to sit with you is because you feel uncomfortable around her, give her a break, she got ditched by her friends so she has nowhere else to go, try to know her a little better, give her a chance
2007-11-02 14:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by ax_pandaboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are outnumbered. If a bunch of other people allowed her to sit there, then let her be. Just move down next to other friends, don't sit near her.
2007-11-02 11:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋