Could my deceased mother be calling for me?

Question

My mother died in March, a week later I found out I was 6 weeks pregnant with my first child.. a baby girl. Lately since her funeral I've been having dreams about her and the house she grew up in. Sometimes she's not there and the house is empty just how it is now. A couple weeks ago, I dreamt I followed a man to that house and I don't believe I knew him, well anyways, he told me to come inside. I was very reluctantant and had told him I didn't want to. He said I belong there and where else could I go. This dream really disturbed me, I live 4 hrs away starting a new family, but I keep dreaming about that house. My older siblings tell me that the house is haunted, and many people have died there including both of my parents who suffered fatal heart attacks. I have a strong desire to visit that house to stop the dreams but I'm also scared too. I shared this with my sister and she strongly discouraged me.

Could it really be my mother, maybe both my parents? Could it be that house? ... Or maybe I'm just feeling stressed from the death of my mother and my duedate approaching.

Answer 1

>> I think this dream may be just your unconscious reluctance
to say goodbye to your mother. The fact that you are beginning a new life/new family ~ there may be a part of you that feels things are moving on a little too quickly, maybe unconsciously you feel even a little guilty that you are getting on with your life without your mother. (you are being taken to the house & told, this is where you belong) These are normal feelings in the grieving process & not to be concerned about.
Hope this helps. Ciao!

Answer 2

Yes your mother do realy visit you in your dream She is visiting you because she knows how you missed her And about the old house I have a question for you Do you know if your mother had a tough chilhood and also a tough life in that house If the answer is yes Well your mother is telling you this I did not like my life but in those days you didnt have any other choises The fact that your dreaming about this old house so often its because you are missing your mother very much

Answer 3

I am sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Mother. I know you miss her very much. My mom passed on April 10, 2005.
Dad passed on February 9, 2004.

My eldest Brother died on August 19, 1978 from injuries he suffered in a Motorcycle accident on August 15, 1978.
It was a few months later I had a dream about my brother.
We had gone into the County Seat for night of fun for us.
We lived in the Rural County. (I had the dream after I moved from home) He was driving the car that had been repossessed before he obtained his motorcycle.

We were on the way back to my house (my parents) when we took a detour of the main highway. We were about a mile from reconnecting to the highway when another car approached from the other direction. My brother knew them.
As I turned to see who he was talking too, there was a knock on my window (I was riding shotgun) When I turned to see who was by the window, I woke up.

I attributed this to my brother wante dme to know he was fine and he would still watch over me and he was still my brother.

This is normal reaction for folks who lose loved ones. Your Mom might want you to see the home where she grew up.
Only if you feel you need to see the home, arrange a day when you can go with your partner. And walk around he outside of the home.

Prayers to you and let us know what you decided to do.

Answer 4

Yes, your mom can visit you in your dreams!!! Get the book "We Don't Die" by Joel Martin and read it! You'll understand all this much better! Your loved ones are still close to you and they can visit you in your dreams!! My family discourages me, too, when I tell them about my dreams, so I just don't tell them. My mom died when I was 5 months pregnant with my first child - she visits me, too. Talk to her out loud - she can hear you!! Don't be scared of these dreams - and by all means, go visit your old house! Talk to the spirits there, out loud, and tell them that they need to move on. They can hear you!! Good luck!!!!!!!