Why is it so hard to fine true love in this world?

Question

I ready dont know if am giving out the right sign, but i hope it some soon.

Answer 1

It's you and not you. To me it seems there are tooo many options. Too many influences. The media bombards us with they should be this or that. Which sounds good. Our parents and relatives tell us they should be this and that.

What happens I think we don't figure it out for ourselves what we want from a man or woman and pick this guy or gal without making a conscious or even a semiconscious choice.

Then along the way, with the media and the contact with more people, we get distracted and tempted by other choices who are perceived as better or not so bad compared to what you have. He does not make enough money or she is not so pretty or nags too much without looking inside to see what is your heart and the heart of your partner.

And the pace of life you get soo much into doing than thinking and reflecting. To me, this is why our parents stayed together so much more longer than many of our contemporaries. We rushed into marriage or not. Also, legally it is easier to get divorced. Also, not much thought is given to having children as to why they are having them. Some are accidents true. But, choosing to be around for them to nuture them, I think a person has to choose to raise them. For your benefit and their benefit.

Then we don't learn to communicate or feel and understand what is in our hearts. We don't write letters that take time to reflect what we feel. It's all emails or text messages and going through the motions and actions of what we "should" be doing" or saying.

Let's see did I miss anything. Oh yeah, then as we get older we change our minds about things. And we don't assess or realize the affect on others.

I could be wrong.

Have fun doing life and worry about......

Answer 2

Realistically speaking there is no "TRUE LOVE" there are just people that you can click with on many different levels. You may have a lot of things in common with them, really connect mentally and physically but true love is just a creation of man.

As far as why you cannot find a compatible person, that's up to the way you present yourself and how you interact with people. Bring your best face forward to all situations and you will garner positive results.

Answer 3

its hard to find true love, because everyone wants it, and they are too busy looking for it, instead of showing it... you will find someone... soon enough

Answer 4

because people these dont believe in love they just be wantin the sex most of the time. or they just lost faith in love because someone did them wrong