I recently met this girl on Yahoo Dating (free plug). We have exchanged photos, tons of emails and we recently started talking on the phone. We have a lot in common and things are awesome. We seem to be hitting it off very well so far and will be meeting soon.
I really like her at the moment but I am a little shy and introverted. Sometimes I can come up with nothing to say and I am afraid of awkward silences. She seems to be very talkative and fun, where I am a little more reserved and quiet.
What is the best way to remain loose and happy go lucky when I finally meet her? I want to make a good impression and come off as a fun person that she will want to see again. I just want this girl to like me in person as much as she seems to like me over the phone and email. Over the phone she talks 90% of the time, and seems to like to talk.
Guys and girls feel free to chime in on this one. THANKS!
2007-11-02 10:05:20 · 6 answers · asked by WHATSUP??? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't over think things just be yourself. When people talk on the phone they usually feel secure because it's not like talking in person. Just be natural and look for the things that you guys have in common and go on from there. You never know she might feel the same way as you do. Meeting a person for the first time is totally a different situation than from talking on the phone with somebody. Maybe start the conversation with how she's doing or what her expectations were prior to the date.
2007-11-02 10:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by Rox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-23 07:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she seems to talk a lot, let her; pay attention to what she says, contribute, show that you're really listening. Tell her you think she looks nice (if you think she does), ask her how she likes her food, talk about the movie you saw (if you see one), ask what she's been doing or what she wants to do. Be chivalrous. I personally don't like guys who order my food, but I'm completely receptive to him opening the door, offering to pay, and being kind to the people around us.
I was set up on a blind date with a guy who was my aunt's friend's nephew. He did not talk the entire time. He drank his coffee with his pinky sticking out like a snob. My original plan was to see a movie afterwards, but he was so unenthusiastic about being there with me, I really felt like he could care less. Turns out he was just shy and extremely nervous, but there was no way he was getting a second chance. Make an effort - even if you think you're stupid, be sure to laugh at yourself, and you'll be fine.
2007-11-02 10:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who like to talk love a good listener.
A good listener doesn't just sit there: you can tell from their facial expression, their posture, their eye contact that they really are listening tou you, and to what you are saying -- that they care, and understand. And when they do say something, it's relevant and sympathetic. Obviously this is a lot easier to do in person than over the phone, where there are no non-verbal cues.
2007-11-02 10:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring her a teddy bear or a flower maybe both to break the ice.I wouldn't worry so much if she likes you already the cat is in the bag use that to your advantage.The first couple of minutes might be wierd but it will pass.
2007-11-02 10:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before u meet her, ask her what she likes doing. Or what she'd like to do on a date. Then take her to do those things. IF she's from another town, take her sight seeing. Just take her somewhere low key but interesting, so then u'll maintain her interest, but seem non-threatening.
2007-11-02 10:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋