...a 28 year old, single male living at home. Women seem turned off by this when this fact per se is irrelevant. I have no need to move away from home. I love living with my family, it's close to work and it keeps me financially well off. I can save money if I decide to move one day, yet at the same time I can spend money on fun things that most people can't afford because they moved out prematurely. I therefore have no need whatsoever to move out, and neither do my other adult siblings. My parents are the biggest supporters of this decision. While most parents kick their kids out then regret it it due to their feeling alone and guilty, my parents can enjoy having the family together. After all, why have such a big house when none of your kids live there anymore? I get so much crap from friends, extended family and coworkers about my family's living arrangements. I also get crap from the aforementioned people because I never date.
2007-11-02 09:42:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And no, I don't pay any rent as my parents certainly don't need it. They tell me I'll have the rest of my life to pay rent or mortgages in the future. Also, what is the obsession with "taking girls home"? I don't date and even if I did, why couldn't I bring her home? If you mean for sex that's a big no no. I don't believe in having sex before marriage and I really don't ever plan on marrying or dating again. I went on two dates in my life and I felt it wasn't for me. So bringing girls home for sex is a non-issue. People are so silly. Why is everyone so jealous? It's obvioulsy jealousy as that explains 99% of all nasty comments one receives about anything in life.
2007-11-02 09:42:09 · update #1
It's the "norm" to move out sometime soon after turning 18. You just don't fit into that norm and therefore people have to break your balls over it.
2007-11-02 09:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Shat Splatterson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno man .... i was raised to grow up get schooling get a job and support my three kids and wife have a nice house and vehicles and work for the things i wanted in life instead of having mom and dad pay the way for a roof and household items over your head for your life instead of getting a good job and buying your own stuff and suporting the things you need to be out on your own and let your parents have there house to there selves and enjoy some freedom in there own home after these years, if you cant do it on your own yet then you need a career change or life style change to make it so you can afford to do this on your own ........ as for why women dont want to date men such as you living with mom and dad ....... first thing they think is this boy cant take care of himself what would he do with me ................
2007-11-02 17:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
homeboy you are a dork I been living on my own since I was 18 and I am doin jus fine. I dont know how u can do wit out the woman but everyone is diffrent.
2007-11-02 17:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by yung_buk245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 26 and in the same situation. i laugh at my friends who make fun of me because i have so much more money than they do. ive had a good paying job for 3 yrs but dude its time for you to get out. im 26 saved up a ton and now im ready to move. love my family but im getting sick of them now. i wanna have partys, have sex, watch what i want on tv, walk around naked. i hopefully will be out before im 27. my current g/f is helping me as well.
2007-11-02 16:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by Hello2u 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go live your life, an adventure . I moved out when I was 18 and had some of the greatest times of my life. of course they want you to live there your their baby. grow up dude
2007-11-02 16:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls see you as a dependant mama's boy who sponges off his parents..
If you don't date what difference does it make?
And why you whining on here?
2007-11-02 16:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women don't want your Dad knocking on your bedroom door when you're having sex asking if your need anything
2007-11-02 16:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋