Starting life over and looking to get into the workforce - how to make my weak resume stand out?

Question

So here's my situation - I'm 21 years old. I started working at 15 as a receptionist, then moving to various other jobs (none lasting more than 5 months) including bartending and waitressing. At 18 I met my husband, got fired from my waitressing job, became pregnant, got married and have since been a stay-at-home mom. My husband and I are recently separated and I need to find work that will earn me enough money to support myself and my 2-year old son. I have experience as a receptionist, but its been years since I've been one, and I'm looking to work in reception, or even try my luck as being an office assistant. Problem is, its been a few years since I've worked and earned an income, and I need to figure out a way to market myself as a desirable candidate despite everything. I would work my butt off and do whatever it takes to provide for my family. Any ideas on what I should do?

Answer 1

Include some "life experience." In other words, point out how competently you have handled the responsibility of running a household and raising a child.

Point out your computer skills, and any other skills you have developed -- good phone manners, people skills, good communication skills, etc. Point out that you are an energetic self-starter with good detail and organization skills.

Indicate that you have continued learning through independent sources (reading, watching educational programming, internet research.)

I would also suggest you register with a temp agency, as this will give you some more experience and skills. Employers frequently hire temporary help, so it is a good way to get into a company, and to find out if you like a company before you take a job there.

And, I am sure you are aware that your husband is responsible for child-support, so you should not have to shoulder the financial burden of raising your child alone.

Best of luck.

Answer 2

Capitalize on your previous experience in an office. Even though it has been awhile you still have the experience. Also go to your local job service office. They have people there that can help you critique your resume and make it look as professional as possible. You'll probably have to focus on entry level or limited experience jobs. Whatever you get, stick with it for at least two years so you can show you have some stability.

Answer 3

Use your experience as a "Household Manager" on your resume. You can also check your local community college to see if they have a Displaced Homemaker's program so you can go back to school to get a better paying job.

Answer 4

I would try to get another receptionist job. Just explain your gap in employment.

Answer 5

i lied out my rear end to get my job.