I know this guy through a web chat, he invited me out for dinner after dinner he invited me to see his place and for a couple of drinks.We spend the night togethere sharing each other life stories. He seems to be a gentleman, so I find him pretty boring lol. However from what he share to me, his profession and all about his life really impressed me the down times and how he get through after the tragical married he has from, now he is single again( I can feel his sincerity though). He's an American guy and I am Asian. That actually really surprised me why he never attempt to hold my hands or kiss me either when we are just both alone in his apartment.For some reason I made the first move and give him a sign to do whatever he has in mind.We ended up, having agreat time togethere that night.After the next day, I never bother to message cause I know for a fact that guys are all the same , after they have you then ,they'll forget you. But contrary to what I expect he keeps on calling me.
2007-11-02 08:56:36 · 10 answers · asked by alexa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Until now he keeps on sending sweet messages on me. It's been a week and I dont want to give him the idea that like him as well. But then since he is very patient enough to get intouch with me everyday despite that I am not replying to any of his messages. He also informed of what he is doig everyday,I dont even as him.
What do you think guy's,? He seems to be persistent and he is a serious kind of guy...Sometimes one of my replied messages in him is just a joke and he just ignore my joke either. Im starting to like him. And I have no idea what's the real score between us, he treats me like his gf...
2007-11-02 09:05:09 · update #1
The only girls that never get call backs after sleeping with a guy on the first date are THE GIRLS THAT SLEEP WITH A GUY ON THE FIRST DATE!!! So dont blame that on the guy, they arent all the same they just know you cant turn a ho into a house wife. I mean no offense to you I just hope you hear what Im saying to you...have more respect for yourself. If you dont respect yourself, who will?! Anyway, he sounds like a good man. Go out with him again.
2007-11-02 09:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok any your question is what?
It's funny how you say "guys are all the same, after they have you they forget you"
But yet you say that he didn't even try to hold your hand or kiss you that YOU had to make the first move....you didn't have to do anything.
Luckily this guy is a gentleman and he is still calling you and maybe really interested.
But seriously if a guy is sincerly wanting to get to know you, and have a real realtionship with you and maybe just wants to take things slow, why would you then feel you HAVE to make the first move? Then to say "you know how guys are" Yea some guys are like that, but some girls are just as bad! Maybe on your next first date, try keep your legs closed!!!!
2007-11-02 09:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, contrary to what you might think, you can't say all guys are the same, I mean I can say all women are the same and will play games, and lead on...but I am sure not ALL women are like that just most, seems to me he does like you. If you like him then answer his calls, but you said you found him boring so maybe not, if that is how you feel let him know and he will stop calling.
2007-11-02 09:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by calilax04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you made an impression on the guy.He must like you if he keeps calling.Doesn't matter if you just met him as i met my husband and it was love a first sight .Been together 27 yrs now and he is still wonderful.Have fun and enjoy each other.All guys are not the same.There still is a decent man out there.You just have to be patient and get to know them for what and who they are.Lot's of luck
2007-11-02 09:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by mamaw2305 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been given puzzled with each and every of the "mentioned guy" bits. i think of you are able to - i've got have been given a chum, Joe, and we would possibly under no circumstances bypass there. And my chum Ellie talks to this guy Gordon for some 0.5 of her day, they're truly close, yet no longer something could ever ensue. xx
2016-10-03 04:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by xerxes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds pretty needy or clingy. Most people don't share their life stories the first time they meet someone and certainly don't spend the night together. If he calls and you want to see, then see him. Oh, another thing to consider....he may be commitment phobic and that may be why he hasn't made any moves....so be careful. You don't want to fall in love with someone who cannot reciprocate that love.
2007-11-02 09:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL guys are not NOT the same - don't throw out BS generalizations like that.
2007-11-02 09:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he does seem really gentlemenly (if thats how u spell it) so he problaby really likes u...and wants to see u again
2007-11-02 09:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by yadadamean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a typical asian sIut
2007-11-03 15:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Roar... Love at first sight. :)
2007-11-02 08:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by Roar... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋