I am always being myself. I have a lot of friends but they are rude to me and are nerds if that's not too blunt. I don't know what to do! I want to be cool and for guys to like me and stuff but all the guys want are the fake barbie dolls.....any advice?
2007-11-02 06:07:38 · 14 answers · asked by M-L-E 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you friends are rude to you then you should find other people to be friend with. yes you want guys to like you fine, but trust me you want guys to like you for who you are, so if you haven't got with a guy yet, then you haven't found that right one, be patient and you will get what you want.
Don't change and don't be someone else for other people, be who you want to be, who cares what others think, at least your being yourself, most other people are not being them selfs
2007-11-02 06:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your doing just fine!! All you can do is be yourself and there will be a guy out there who appreciates you for you. It may take some time for them to become more mature and see past the fake barbie dolls, but trust me, they will. Most importantly, don't ever change who you are for someone elses approval.
Questions you may want to ask yourself are: Are you happy with your life? Is there something you should or want to be doing differently? From major life changes or simply picking up a hobby? I only ask because if your happy with yourself and your life that will radiate off you and you'll exude confidence and happiness, which is the most attractive thing either sex can possess.
2007-11-02 13:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by Quartermush 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch how the fake barbie dolls dress and copy them within reason. Hopefully that gets some of the guys to notice you.
2007-11-02 13:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Andre 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be your self some guys r like that.other guys want fake barbie dolls to show them of and 4 their looks.there r decent guys who go 44 personality so b your self.
2007-11-02 13:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by a regular girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep being yourself and you will meet people who are mature enough to see the real you. It sounds like this is "High School Stuff ", so do not worry thing will get much better in time. If not, when you get in the real world you will get into a better, more mature crowd.
2007-11-02 13:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by schneider2294@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i appreciate u being urself..and girl u r cool in ur own way!...trust me only fake guys like fake barbies..so be urself n dnt worry too much abt these things, one day a hero will come ur way :D
All the best!
2007-11-02 13:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by clueless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue being yourself. It really sounds like you might need to broaden your horizons on the friends department. What are your interests? Do you have any venues where you can explore these interests? There are always sites like yahoo personals, okcupid, and many more for finding new friends and guys that will like you for who you are, not just what you look like.Good luck and stay strong.
2007-11-02 13:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by gotbeerimez69 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and it's not like that everywhere. You'll find out that other places will accept you for who you. When I was in High school I transfered schools and noticed a difference in people and attitudes. If you make friends easily then try another school out and see how that works?!?!
2007-11-02 13:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. not all guys like barbie dolls. i'm sure someone out there is meant for you
2007-11-02 13:13:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, you have to stop thinking that just because a girl is pretty she is already "a fake barbie doll".
2007-11-02 13:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋