How do you flirt???

Answer 1

It helps to be nearsighted! No, that's not a comment on the object of anyone's flirtation ;)

Actually, I've found that men seem to react favorably to eyes with dilated pupils. Dilated pupils indicate sexual interest, among other things. Since I'm naturally myopic, my pupils tend to open widely when I look at someone in less than bright light (like an ambient-lit bar or club). I'm just trying to SEE them, and they assume I'm interested!

Answer 2

Hello Rena, I don't know how I did it, but in my single days I was always accused of being a big flirt, I was even told that I was a natural at it, it's beyond me though I never considered myself a flirt, just a very outgoing personality. I am married now so I purposely and knowingly flirt with him, but that's to easy. I don't know if I would be the same if I was single now, my flirtatious personality from my past may not work for someone else today, who knows! LOL

Answer 3

what a cute question. I am smiling as I write this. Being a flirt is something you can learn but mostly what you are. I wish we were sitting in Starbucks chatting about this for I could show you better than tell you.

I will let someone else go into this .....in writing. But flirting can be done in writing, over the phone, with talking and without any words at all. Good luck...lol you make me smile!!

Answer 4

With me it will vary depending who it is that I am flirting with, each person is different and the way that I flirt just seems to happen the way that feels right at the time!! The eyes are very important in conveying a message, as well as smiles, laughter and body language!!

Answer 5

Engage in conversation while not losing eye contact or smiles, good hygiene, pleasant scented perfume or cologne, nice grooming, ask questions focused on the other person, find a common interest, and expound on that, show a sense of humor and good comfort level, be easy-going, laid-back without being overly aggressive, make the other person comfortable.

Answer 6

the way i act kinda changes...but in a different way with different guys...i learn who they are before i flirt(as long as i can until i start that is lol) and i go with what i think they like...usually im right on target (by how they react)

so mine USUALLY consists of:

topic, way of talking, positioning of body towards and distance from guy, some eye contact, use of hands, some touching of the other person (no, not that way!! as in the arm, pushing them slightly), and teasing a little as you leave...make them want more when you walk away, and of course, use of hips, butt, legs and back when walking away...and an occassional glance over shoulder..

it may sound bad when i say it, but it comes naturally for me!

Answer 7

Holding eye contact a little past the comfort zone and
thinking of having breakfast with the person the morning
after.

Answer 8

well I have a very expressionable face, if there is such a word, and a quick whit to raise a smile I`m affraid it gets kinda borin after that, yes even for me, like a fish out of water

Answer 9

I smile, make eye contact and initiate a friendly conversation. Women like to be put at ease, usually.

Answer 10

It's hard to describe. It's kinda like being helpless,and cute all at the same time. I'm not tall,so it works for me.