If you're single, and you don't like alcohol, bars, casual sex, or drugs, what else is left ? Being single is the WORST ! The single life is cruel . I'm being wasted on the single life . I don't have what it takes to be single . Being single is a curse .
2007-11-02 05:01:28 · 18 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop complaining
2007-11-02 05:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because people are in a relationship doesn't mean they are happy. You can't see everything looking in the window. And the grass aint always greener on the other side.
I know women who are sitting at home worried about some man who is unfaithful. I know women who are in a relationship and they have to take care of their so-call man like "he" is one of her children cause "he" is too sorry to work, I know women who are in abusive relationships.
Being single is not a curse. Enjoy your singleness. Your soulmate may be just around the corner. You mentioned alcohol, bars, casual sex, and drugs like it was something positive to do. It aint.
2007-11-02 05:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by Boo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Singles are free. Singles can do everything that they want to do. Nobody can say nothing. If you think boring, just have a pet. Pets, especially dogs can make humans happy and long live. Just have a cute pet. You don't love animals? It's OK, there are many things that can make you happy; games, Internet, books, travel, etc. Being single is not bad at all.
2007-11-02 05:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by Aye mama 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've been single for years. I don't regret it at all. I have had the time for myself to feel more centered in myself and to establish what my true dreams are and really what I want to be doing and where I want to be in life. I think if people get too caught up or have too many relationships early in life it makes it harder to do that. .. also I think men prefer women who have a sense of self and has somewhat of a life of her own rather than simply just depending on them.
Eventually, I believe though, that it is nice to find one's right match to be with. I think ultimately everyone wants someone to grow old with.. even the men who are players or who are so called commitment phobic.
But men don't want women who are desperate or who have no sense of independence.
Right guys,..? feel free to comment on what I say here too men...
There is a man I really like, but the absolute last thing I would ever want to have him think is that I am after him or desperate. I have made that mistake in the past... not again.
2007-11-02 05:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being single is wonderful!!
I go where I want when I get ready..
I buy what I want, because it's all my money...
When I'm tired of my friends, I go home...
And I get to go out with different people if I want to...
(and by the way-- I don't do drugs, alcohol ,casual sex, or bars either..)
2007-11-02 05:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I LOVE being single. In fact, I'm so terrified of commitment that I hope I am single forever!! I have a great time and I don't drink at all. Being single teaches you about yourself and if you have to have a man or woman in your life to make you feel whole, then you need to seriously work on yourself before you lay your baggage on someone else.
2007-11-02 05:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are a girl you don't have to watch football all weekend...you can watch what you want...but aside from that...it sucks. You can do the online thing and look for girls near where you live. If you aren't in church, find one that has plenty of people your age and of course you can always get your friends to fix you up with someone. It's hard to give much more info, not knowing your age, but maybe go to some ball games or other social events where you might meet some girls.
2007-11-02 05:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by D C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your time is your own and you answer to no one.
Learn to live with yourself and you will be happy.
I would suggest you get a pet(s)--dog(s), cat(s), whatever, as long as you don't walk into your home with nobody to greet you and no one to talk to. Pets are a wonderful solution and help fill the void and emptiness you seem to feel from living by yourself. Enjoy it while you can.
Don't jump into a relationship just because you don't like being alone. Being with another person has significant responsibilities, some of which you might not like.
Good luck.
2007-11-02 06:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound like a happy person. Being in a relationship isn't going to make you happy. You have to be happy with yourself first.
I loved being single. My apartment stayed exactly the way I left it. I could walk around naked without being mauled. If I didn't want to cook or clean I didn't have to. I enjoyed my privacy, my quiet, my independence. I was free to go out with anyone, anytime I wanted without having to give an accounting of my time or whereabouts.
If you're content with yourself, being single is wonderful. That sad, "cursed" attitude is a death sentence for any potential relationship.
2007-11-02 05:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by Ginger R 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow dude you really need to get a social life then you don't need to have someone with you at all times it is called having a social life and meeting new people not everyone who is single goes to the bar to hang out.. Get out there and see what it is like to have friends and to be independent
2007-11-02 05:06:37 · answer #10 · answered by JD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While I understand a lot of the points being made here, in being happy with yourself first and all that, I think he's just saying how he feels right now. I mean I have a social life, but I agree with him...being single sucks for me right now.....I understand all the benefits to being single, but now I'm ready to be with someone...I think that's all he's saying.....
2007-11-02 05:11:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋