i think it's important too, to know my guy and i aren't becoming platonic and are still attracted to eachother and in love. but i'm a girl... so i can only venture guesses as to why guys think it's important when they're in a relationship with a woman they love.
some opinions please =)
2007-11-02 04:49:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very important to me because engages our relationship more romantic till death do us part. When love fades...sex will also fade. Love & Sex makes our relationship strongly binded together.
2007-11-02 05:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by poorguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most of us guys use the wrong head to think with. We've finally persuaded many young girls that 'saving themselves' for marriage isn't a viable - or important - issue. So, the old saying about "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free" is a helluva lot more in practice today than it was when I was young.
Men have found a way to manipulate, intimidate, exploit and coerce young women into giving up something that should be considered precious and sacred between a couple. I suspect that those couples who are still virgins when they marry enjoy a healthier, livelier, more satisfying sex life during their marriage than those who 'gave it up' at the drop of a hat to anybody and everybody. I would also guess that most couple who were virgins when they married have happier marriages, and share a private bond unknown between most of today's amoral society.
If I had it to do all over again.....I would have 'saved myself' for marriage. Maybe then I wouldn't have gone through three divorces and a thirty-year marriage that's now 'on the rocks' after five years of separation. Oh, by the way: in case you've not figured it out, I'm a guy, not a girl.
2007-11-02 05:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by -RKO- 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For me the innocence could be a activate yet no longer sexually. If he does not seem at different women human beings, think of approximately different women human beings or talk approximately different women human beings and does not cheat he's in love with you. Yeah kissing isn't something that fairly connects human beings by way of fact there are assorted sturdy kissers obtainable and its in simple terms actual. in basic terms one in 15 bachelors or bachelorets continues to be at the same time from that instruct so stay far flung from actual as long as attainable and don't tolerate cheating.
2016-10-03 04:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by larusch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is an important part of any good relationship. The guy down there who's spewing about amoral society is welcome to his opinion, but amorality has nothing to do with it. It has everything to do with connecting in a way that we were meant to connect by nature. If sex between two consenting adults is amoral, then Mother Nature is the whore of Babylon. We were given that means of connection, and to deny it is to deny a part of who we are in the name of piousness and religiosity.
You ask why guys think it's important in a relationship. I think it may be less important to women, but not much. It's important because it's a part of the connection you have to your significant other. It's important because without it you're just friends. I have tons of friends, but only one person that I have sex with at any given time. That person is allowed to see a side of me that is as close to the divine as we can get. We touch the divine when we are with our partner, and sex can be a spiritual experience outside of marriage just as easily as inside of it.
If your marriages have failed, blame not your lack of virginity. Blame your denial of your connection to the divine spark that is always available to you, and do something to fix that connection. Marriage was always a contract. Sex can be divine without it.
2007-11-02 05:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by ironvox77 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i think sex is important in a relationship if its someone you really love and trust. But if theres too much sex it could just become were one person is just a sex toy for the other person
2007-11-02 04:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by CupCake 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys dont think its important for the relationship.. They just use that as an excuse, guys just need sex... Doesnt matter if there in a relationship or not they just need it... For females its more of a connection that they want to have with there bfs..
2007-11-02 05:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Drew 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I honestly believe it is in our nature to want to spread our genetic material. Not to mention it feels good, and it brings a couple closer together, but I do agree it should be with someone you love and trust. If a guy just wants to have sex to have sex, than it's not worth it.
2007-11-02 04:59:39 · answer #7 · answered by dg2003 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Boys who think sex is important are only interested in the sex. I am totally in love with someone and haven't even thought about sex.
2007-11-02 04:58:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
your question suggests that perhaps you think sex is NOT an important part of a relationship.
I pray to GOD that as long as you believe this, you stay unmarried and single.
There are enough sexless marriages out there without the likes of you trying to justify it.
2007-11-02 08:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by ButtonGear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's quite "natural" for men to enjoy sex!
Men require Intimacy~
Women require Security!
2007-11-02 05:00:54 · answer #10 · answered by LedHead 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋