I think God hates me. . .no stupid awnsers please?

Question

i am so tired of my life and this constant struggle, i always stand up for those who are weak and in the end they become the ones who judges and hates. . .everything i do turns out crap i feel so alone. . . i mean who would love me? i want to be loved and accepted but no one does so why would God? im tired of fighting all the time and never getting anywhere

pls help me
thanx

Answer 1

Oh, sweetie...you are believing a lie. That is what Satan WANTS you to think...that God hates you. That is NOT TRUE!! God says He loves you with an EVERLASTING LOVE! (Jeremiah 31:3) He sent His Son to die for YOU so that you could live with Him......that is not hate....that is pure love! I am so sorry that you feel so alone here and that everything is such a struggle. You are not alone....you have friends right here...answering your question. Write to some of them....email me....I will write you back I promise. We are in this world to love and help each other. I am going to pray for you to feel loved and accepted by God and to find some special friends here in the next few days. You take care now ok? Here is a giant hug for you! (((((( HUG! ))))))


† On-call Prayer Warrior †

Answer 2

I hear you honey about being tired of having a hard life. But you know what I hear all the time from my spirit guides? That God gives the hardest path to His strongest children. He believes in you, and He wouldn't give you anything He knew you couldn't handle. Tired and in need of a rest? Call Jesus. I swear to you He will come. I've been rather tired myself lately and I called him last night, for a single night of rest, and He came. I felt him, and I saw his light.

God loves you so very much, and he's proud of you for sticking up for the weak. That shows a sensitive, kind caring heart. I hear quite a lot lately that it's not the end that's important, it's the path. Don't focus on the light at the end of the tunnel, stop and look around you and focus on the light that's all around you, if only you'd see it. God loves you. He does. He doesn't expect you to be perfect. He just wants us to be good people, to be kind to each other, love each other. If you're doing that, then I truly believe that He is proud of you.

peace, love and light to you.

Answer 3

Why would God take the time and energy to hate you? If you are talking about the Western Judeo-Christian God, then that God, as you know, not only created you, but also knows everything about you, even the future. He knows this is a crappy time for you and that you always stand up for those who are weak, which is what He means for you to do.

Answer 4

God hates nobody. God loves us all with an indescrible intensity.

Life is a constant struggle, whether you are doing good in His name or not, whether you are "saved" or not, whether you follow all the rules or not.

You might have fallen victim to the heresy that some fundamentalists preach: that if you do God the favor of following His will, He will in turn make your life trouble-free and at all times happy.

Believers and Christians face even more of this kind of stuff than non-believers in some ways.

Answer 5

You just keep doing what you know in your heart is right.
God doesn't hate you, and he never will. You are feeling betrayed right now, but wait on the Lord, be strong and take
heart. He knows what you have need of, and soon, you will see, God, Is a God of his word, He will not forsake you nor, leave you as an orphan.

Jesus Loves You, God Bless You.

Answer 6

hello.. how are you? first of all please smile for me =)
don't be sad, i understand all your struggles and anxiousness. me myself i have a lots of struggles and trials in life. i grew up as a christian and almost grew up on the church. when i was a child i experience all the blessings by God thats why i lived my life on the happy go lucky type. since i was a child my father is working in kuwait so i lived with my mother and my brother. last year my mom died, i was just 19yrs old and my brother is 15. i was forced to take all the responsibility. i really love my mom and it really hurts me so much.. 3months ago my father was accused for the sin that he didnt committed.. we are forced to pay a large amount of money. now we have a financial problem. i don't know how i could study. where will i get my tuition fees? i have a lots of questions to God because of the so much trials and knowing the fact that i'm still young and i'm living alone with my brother here in the Philippines. many times you could see me crying but im holding on to the promise of God. i know God will not abandon me. its just a test of faith. if God loves me, for sure He also loves you! keep on believing. in the end God will reveal himself for you..

if you want a friend just send me an email. i will include you in my prayers. God bless!

remember: "the Lord loves you, just open the eyes and door of your heart so that God can show you how much He loves you."

"For i know the plans i have for you-says the Lord
plans not to harm you but to give you a hope and a future(Jeremiah 29:11)"

i want to here from you soon...
i love you my new friend with the love of the Lord.

Answer 7

You are very strong. That is what god is telling you. God wont give you anything you cant handle. He may be putting you in positions that are hard but that may be only because he knows you can come out the other end of it alive , stronger, and none the less deter-ed from helping the weak again. Dont stop pushing forward, your reward is yet come. I may not know you at all but I assure you that you are loved, even though you dont feel it , it is there, not just from God but from numerous other strangers you have yet to meet.

Answer 8

No, I don't think God hates you. You sound like a compassionate, good person. Life is full of troubles and tribulations. We all have to struggle with daily issues.

You must learn to love yourself before you will be appealing to others. Do some positive things for yourself.

Keep trying, surely good things will come to you.

I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 9

Every struggle is a lesson. If you didn't learn anything from it, look again. For every good or bad thing that happens, there is something to be learned from it.

Happiness comes from within yourself. If you keep looking for external sources for your happiness, you will be searching forever. It helps to find things that make you happy and do them. Doing things that make you feel good about yourself will make you feel confident.

Surround yourself with people who make you feel happy. If someone only adds negativity to your life, do not keep company with them.

Before you can expect other people to love you, you have to love yourself. I know it sounds cliche and you may have heard that 1,000 times but that is because it is true. You have to first realize that YOU ARE WORTHY of being loved. You are!

Once you are able to find confidence in yourself, things will start looking up. Looking to other people to make you happy will be a never ending search. You have to find your own happiness, and the rest will follow.

((((Best of Luck))))

Answer 10

God hath not promised
skies always blue…
Flower-strewn pathways
all our lives through…
God hath not promised
sun without rain,
joy without sorrow,
peace without pain.

But God hath promised
strength for the day,
rest for the labor,
light for the way…
grace for the trials, help
from above…
unfailing compassion, and
undying love.

© 1978 Gail Copeland

I am praying for you. Not that I'm saying that u don't have big problems, but look at Job: he lost everything -- his kids, herds of cattle, even his wife said "Just curse God and get it over with."