Same dreams for two years???

Question

Hello,
I have been having some weird dreams and feelings going on for the past couple of years. I have no idea if I am nuts or what please help me!!!!
Where to begin? Well this guy and me dated on and off throughout grade school up until we were about 19.We were more than just boyfriend and girlfriend he was my bestfriend. When we were about sixteen his older brother was killed in a car accident, and from that day on his whole personality changed. About a week after his brother’s funeral he told me he was just going to kill himself. I told him to quit being stupid, but I really was worried that he even would think of saying that to me. From then on our relationship just went down hill. One week we were together the next week we were not. Finally we both moved on and began dating other people. We both had some hard feelings towards each other, so we just quit speaking. He got badly involved into drugs, and ended up having a baby with his this woman. I ran into him one day and he invited me to come over his house to catch up on old times. I agreed to when we hung out, and it was a little awkward, but after a while it was like old times again. We talked about everything my boyfriend his son. He seemed to be acting weird to me. It began to get late, so I decided to go home before my boyfriend began worrying about me. When I got up to leave he kept begging me to stay, he said he would cook me breakfast. I told him I had to go; before I left he said, “I am sorry”. I asked him for what he said everything. I told him there are no hard feelings and we can still be friends. One night I kept getting hang up phone calls. The next day I found out he had hung himself. The weird thing was I was shocked ,but at the same time I was not.

I did not attend his funeral. I don’t know why I just did not want to remember him being in a casket. I wanted to just remember him being alive. Since then over two years ago I have dreams about him at least three days a week. They are so real it scares me. They are just dreams of me and him being together. They are different though every time.Once I one of them was me and him living together with his baby. It is like we have a relationship in my sleep. I have a boyfriend, which I have dated for the last five years, so it is not like I am lonely.

Now I am not a believer in ghosts or anything. I guess I am one of them I have to see it to believe it. As crazy as this sounds sometimes I feel a strong sense that something is watching me. I get this real weary feeling. It seems to happen more when I am in my car though. It is like someone else is in it with me.I have never seen anything though.

I do not know if I am imagining things or what. It has just been going on for to long.He has been dead for two years.Why am I still having these dreams?

Answer 1

Sorry to hear your story...
It is true that although ones body dies his/her soul never dies. As your ex-boyfriend is in your mind you are in his mind too even after death that is why you see him in your dream.
But there is nothing to worry about.

Answer 2

wow, that was a long explanation, but in most religions and philosophies, there is some kind of discussion on what happens to folks who do away w/themselves. i have studied the Vedas for over 20 yrs. folks who do what your friend did, don't go to a heaven or a hell, they get a esoteric body because they have ended their lives prematurely and their Karma is not finished, there are guides to help them back on to the right path so they can finish. you say you're not a believer in "ghosts" but you obviously believe the things happening to you are real so.......

it sounds like your friend is trying to let you know he was sorry for maybe not being a better friend. try this it may help - every nite before you go to sleep - tell your friend that you forgive him and still care about him, and that he should relax and move on. use his name, and burn a little white sage or incense, this purifies the area. no you are not crazy. your friend may just need your approval - if you have these feelings in the car as you said, you can do as i suggested above in the car too. i looked at the other answers before i answered - seemed like you needed a serious answer - hope this helps

Answer 3

Your bf did not give up on you Hes visiting you in your dreams to finished the unfinished bussiness you start here Thats O K His spirit is riding with you in your car Why in your car / Because you are alone Spirit likes that when we are alone He want you to know this ;; Pray for me and also I am watching over you Next time he visit you in your dream ask him Do you need prayers If he looks at you and doesnt answer especialy if his face is serious Well the answer is yes but you are living a nice experience its openyour six sense

Answer 4

maybe you're feeling a little down about him you guys separated in such a harsh way and his llife was difficult you feel sorry for him and still connected with him i think you should try to make your peace, visit him with flowers and say how you feel he'll hear you, tell him things that you never realised needed to be said then go home have a long bath think about how your life is with your other partner take the feeling of happiness you had with your ex and put that positive energy into your other relationship maybe he'll realise that you're getting on with life using the loving feelings that he gave you and maybe the dreams will stop
good luck and all the best

Answer 5

You are not responsible for this young man hanging himself, he would have eventually without therapy. Your feeling to much responsibility and anyone of his friends could have helped him but you were there for him when you were supposed to be. Is he haunting you, is that what you want to know also? No, he is not, your doing this and know this, when you accept the fact that he was his responsibility and not you and he mistreated himself not you, then the bad dreams will stop. God watches over you.xx

Answer 6

I have the same thing, Long term recurring dreams. I have Short term, the same dream over and over again almost every night...

Answer 7

Change the channel

Answer 8

Maybe you feel guilty that you knew he was hurting and did nothing about it.

Answer 9

ya change that channel ha ha!