is it ok for christian to have sex before married?

Question

it is a sin, isn't it?

I've had watched lots of western movies, and they serves sex scene in their movies, why is that?

Answer 1

As salaamu 'alaikym, my friend.

Insha'Allah, as you obviously already know, sex prior to marriage is considered a sin in Christianity.

Insha'Allah, as you also already know, Western cinema, as well as Western media is a commercial enterprise pandering to the lowest and therefor most common taste of the buying public throughout the world, regardless of any morality or sense of the same.

To phrase it bluntly, "Sex sells!" and nothing seems to sell better to the western mind than sex. It is used to sell everything from cars to toothpaste and to everyone from grandparents to pre-kindergarten age children. If you have the unfortunate opportunity to watch American television both during prime time and on a Saturday morning (when a majority of children's shows are aired) you will clearly see this demonstrated.

IN the West, a majority of persons seem all too willing to do anything and everything in pursuit of the "almighty dollar", including, lying, cheating and outright stealing. To whit, there is no longer any sense of morality left and the same is quickly destroying the cultures that have adopted the same.

Ma'a salaam.

Answer 2

Yes, a serious sin most assuredly not ok, it's against Christain Biblical teaching. The West is very secular, but has Christian overtones due to the large number of Christians having influence in Western Nations. Don't confuse the West as being Christain it's not that simple.

This is why the secularists are such parasites here. They have sex with everyone before marriage and after marriage or never get married at all, they don't care. On the why there are children involved they feel the state should take care of for them. So up goes the crime rate from the fatherless children running around, it’s a real mess.

Answer 3

We are living at a time when the devil is very active and is doing anything he can to deceive anyone who he can. We know the bible teaches against all that we see and yet many Christians actually invite this into their homes by turning on the TV and watching it or letting someone else watch it at their homes.

Answer 4

Nearly every American has sex before marriage. Some even have sex after the first two years of marriage.

All of my bountiful sex life has been before marriage. Once I'm married, that part's over.

52 years and counting....

Answer 5

No...this could lead to abortions and health issues. Once ones starts down a path of immorls it is hard to stop...kinda like a rock rolling down a mountian...at first its just mouth sex and alcohol....but b4 u know it, u are a heorin addict, having violent sex, and then not too long after that someone will find u bloody and OD'ed in a dumpster behind a KFC

Answer 6

It is a sin , according to their own bible but many Christians ignore their bible if it goes against them enjoying themselves.Many Christians do not follow their Christ's teaching.
Movies are not reality.

Answer 7

You ahve to have sex before your married, otherwise you might marry someone that is horrible in bed, and sex is a big chunk of a healthy relationship.

Answer 8

It is not ok for a Christian believers to have sex before marriage, why? Because the Bible forbid it.

Answer 9

let me put it this way. there are many more important things to work on if you want to be a good christian. sex shouldn't be a sin in my opinion unless someone is taken advantage of.

hope i answered your question.

Answer 10

sex is to saved until marriage.