I need advice before I do something I may regret! Help!!!?

Question

My husband & I have moved into my mother in law's house so we can take care of her. My sister in law who is an animal lover (which I am too) used to stay with my mom in law, but since we are moving in (and sister in law is basically getting her freedom back) we have asked her (over a freakin month now) to get all her animals. My mom in laws house is only 1100 sq feet & my sis in law had a yorkie dog (has mange), a friggin howling tom cat that howls all night long, a full grown german shepperd that has had 3 litters of puppies already under my mom in laws house. WE HAVE BEGGED HER TO MOVE HER WILD KINGDOM DOWN TO HER HOUSE, BUT SHE IS TAKING HER SLOW *** TIME ABOUT IT. Well it is 1:37 am right now & her crazy cat has woke me up howling again. I have opened the front door and I am hoping it will have the ballz enough to come in here (it hates me) & want to go on out the front door, where I want it. Should I have patience for another week (while I go insane without sleep) or............

OK JUST TO CLARIFY, WE HAVE A GERMAN SHEPPARD WITH 5 PUPPIES, A HOWLING CAT, AND A YORKIE DOG THAT STAYS IN THIS 1100 SQ FT HOME. WE ARE NOT REDNECKS, SO WE DO NOT WANT ALL THIS NASTINESS WHERE WE LIVE. I AM ALSO TIRED OF HER ANIMALS WAKING ME UP ALL THE TIME AT NIGHT.

I AM GOING BACK TO BED, IF THAT EFFIN CAT WAKES ME UP ONE MORE TIME, I WILL OPEN THE FRONT DOOR AND LET IT GO, SIS IN LAW OR NOT. HUBBY WILL HAVE TO DEAL.

I DONT GET PEOPLE WHO GET ALL THESE ANIMALS AND JUST LEAVE THEM FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO FREAKIN DEAL WITH. SHE IS A FREAKIN REDNECK.

Answer 1

i smell barbeque.

Answer 2

Simple solution to a simple problem. You dont want the animnals there. She is taking her time in coming to get them. What is stopping you from loading them up in the car and dropping them off at her house. Solves the problem. PS. If the yorkie has mange and she is not taking care of it you need to call the SPCA. She should not have animals that she can not properly take care of. Mange is a horrible, painful disease for an animal. It can lead to serious wound infections from scratching. So be responsible take the dog to a vet, humane society or something and get it help or turn it over so that it can find a home that will take care of it,

Answer 3

It seems like there are a lot of animals and people taking up a very small space. Remind her that as much as you may be stressed about this problem, the other animals could having a hard time adjusting. Try to convince her that fewer animals or a larger house might be beneficial to all parties involved.

Answer 4

I would try to be as polite as possible you have to deal with this person the rest of your life, why make things bad because of this. I would call her in the middle of the night when the cat wakes you up and just tell her as nice a possible that the animals have to go because you have been getting woke up at this time every night. Maybe after she gets woken up she will understand.

Answer 5

She needs to get them out of there asap!!! Tell her you are not sleeping at night because the animals are keeping you up and that the place is too small. Have her make a committment for a certain date and time in the very near future. If she tries to stall you then just stay firm and say it needs to be sooner and suggest ways that you could help her get the pets out.

Answer 6

I think you've had enough patience with her. Yes, I am an animal lover, too, and understand that we want the best for our furry babies, but her concern should also be of the two-legged variety! These animals could potentially pose a health hazard to her mother. Plus, it's simply too cramped. I say you give her a timeline and stick with it. Give her one week to get the animals out or you're calling animal control.

Good luck!

Answer 7

Tell your husband he has a choice ... either he takes the animals to your sister-in-laws house tomorrow at the latest, or that YOU are going to move out and you won't come back or have ANYTHING to do with either him or his mother (whom YOU are presumably more responsible for, if he his working) until he does take the animals to your sister-in-law's house. Yes, your s-i-l should have done it when she first left, but she didn't, so all you can do is threaten to leave if your husband (the brother of this woman with pets) doesn't move them out by tomorrow.

Answer 8

That's gotta suck! Explain to her the need for space (not to mention sleep) and ask her to come get the animals or you'll have to take them to an animal shelter. That's fair warning. Give her another couple of days and if she doesn't come, haul 'em off the the pound. I love animals too, but you gotta draw the line somewhere.

Answer 9

I would simply gather all your sister in laws animals, put them in the car & take them to where ever she is, & be done with the whole thing. What,s she going to do, demand you take them back, obvisly she has a place for them, if your insisting she come get them, good luck, that,s what I would do.

Answer 10

Ok,

Animals in the garage at night. Earplugs when going to bed.
The type you twist before inserting.

My cat howls at night too, but no one to take her, and I'm not snuffing her, so this works.

Good luck.

Answer 11

Tell your husband to tell his sister to remove the animals fast or that you have no option but to move out and for her to move in again to look after her mom and the animals.Give her a date before ....