Ok heres the deal:
Next week my boyfriend is taking me with him to meet his family because a family member is getting married. I have only been to about 2 weddings in my entire life, and I have no clue what to wear! He said something about semi-formal but I still have no idea! Hes mainly taking me to show me off, but I don't want to wear anything that would give a bad first impression as either too showy, or too modest...
What should I wear?
2007-11-01 18:28:21 · 13 answers · asked by chelsea.dee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Wedding guest style for her:
Informal Daytime: Short dress or suit (business attire OK for morning weddings)
Informal Evening: Cocktail dress
Semi-Formal Daytime: Short dress or suit
Semi-formal Evening: Cocktail dress
Formal Daytime: Short dress or suit. Hats and gloves optional.
Formal Evening or Black-Tie: Long or dressy short cocktail (beading, glam accessories, wrap)
Ultra-formal or White Tie: Long gown, extra glitz (furs, diamonds, etc.)
Do's and Don'ts for Her:
Don't wear white because it competes with the bride. There are plenty of other colors available.
Don't wear black or sequins during the daytime.
Don't worry about wearing the same colors as the bridesmaids or mothers. You can't possibly coordinate with everyone in the wedding party.
Do wear something feminine and appropriate, out of respect for your hosts.
Clubwear, overtly sexy clothing (strapless, see-through, etc) doesn't belong at a wedding. If you have to ask if it's appropriate, it probably isn't.
Do use good judgment if the invitation doesn't specify the formality of the event. A pastel suit or soft floral dress for daytime or a little black dress for evening (after 6 p.m.) will take you almost anywhere.
I hope this helps you decide!
Oh, and as far as meeting his family - just be yourself and smile. Because a family member is getting married, if they don't pay a lot of attention to you just know that it's not you, it's because their attention is on the family member. Everything will be fine!
2007-11-01 19:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If the dress is semi-formal, then you're safest with a simple dress, or top and skirt. Don't go wearing a gown or anything. Pick something with sleeves and a non-revealing neckline. Have the hem come to about the knee, not all the way to the floor, you don't want to look like a nun.
His dad should be able to be won-over pretty easily, it's the mother you have to worry about. She's looking for any hints of skankiness. Don't overdo your make-up. It's silly to be anything but yourself, but be your best self.
If you don't know what the colors are for the wedding, it's safest to wear neutral tones like beige or gray. They're most likely to have fall colors at this time of the year. Good luck, and don't worry too much those future in-laws types can smell fear! just kidding
2007-11-01 20:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by blindly_invisible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear something that you would wear out to a nice dinner with your boyfriend, a dress or skirt and top. Make sure you do not wear anything that is too short or too low cut, you want to make a good impression. Also wear something that you are comfortable in because you are pretty much going to be on display, so you want to be confident.
2007-11-02 08:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by vaya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This often depends on the wedding, but generally a simple dress should be fine. You don't want to be super flashy, like you are trying to be the life of the party or anything, since it isn't your wedding. You can also wear a nice pants outfit if it isn't a really formal wedding.
2007-11-01 18:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by Haley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on wear the wedding is being held... I would ask your boyfriend to help pick a dress out with you.. and make sure you feel comfortable in whatever you wear... thats all you need is to feel uncomfortable in what your wearing when you have other stuff on your mind.. like meeting your boyfriends family.
2007-11-01 18:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear a nice dress or skirt and blouse that cover. nothing flashy, or to much skin. Choose it in a neutral tone that way your not going to stand out. Ask what he's wearing and go from there. Good luck.
2007-11-02 01:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by dietitian4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A nice dress, no cleavage or showing too much legs. One that is about knee length, that could go for both causal and formal.
2007-11-01 18:34:04 · answer #7 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try chadwicks, they usually carry nice "decent" dresses. Here's a link:
http://www.chadwicks.com/clothing/Long-Linen-and-Cotton-Dress.aspx?PfId=101645&DeptId=16258&ProductTypeId=1&PurchaseType=0
2007-11-01 18:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by mysteryperson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wear ar nice dress, not to flashy, something very casual, but neverhtheless a dress. if you have seen pushing daisies, something that chuck would wear... she has good clothes.
2007-11-01 18:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Where is it being held (inside outside church event hall etc).
Ask him to go dress shopping with you.
2007-11-01 18:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋