i am a little big, like i have big thighs, i have blonde hair and i always get complimenmts on everything, my hair, my eyes, my clothes, my face in genral, ect. but i have never had a bf and i am 13... and lots of boys compliment me sometimes. i know what your all going to say "your too young" but like ALL the ugly people have had a bf, even the VERY large one, all my friends, even all the younger people! even the nerds!! i have asked people out but they have all said no... what is wrong?!
2007-11-01 17:40:01 · 12 answers · asked by no name 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes I wonder the same things about myself, and I am ten years older than you and never had a boyfriend. Trust me, I know you don't want to hear this, but you are still young and I can assure you there is nothing wrong with you. When the right guy comes along, you will know, you just have to wait for him :) Besides, you don't want to go out with some random guy who only goes out with you because you have blonde hair. But if you are getting compliments from people, then you MUST be a beauty :)
Sometimes, if you can feel confident about yourself, other people will see that and that will attract them. Dress in clothes that make you feel good about yourself, and just be yourself. Have confidence in who you are and be proud of who you are, and other people will like you for that. Try not asking people out, and letting them come to you for a little while :) Stay positive and smile!
I know this probably sounds so cheesey, but these things really are true :)
Good luck!
PS. The fat girl probably only has a boyfriend because she's soooooooo insecure and needy that she's MAKING them go out with her ;)
2007-11-01 17:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by Kulani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. I felt like that too. I was insecure and everything...I was the last to do everything. But don't you worry about why you haven't had a bf. When you least expect it, you will get one. While you don't have one, try to enjoy yourself. Cuz when you finally do get a bf, you'll find that they don't bring nothing but 3 things...problems, broken hearts, and babies if you're not careful. I'm not saying that all of them will, but a good amount of them will. So don't even worry about it. One day, the right one will come to you. Just be patient k.
2007-11-01 17:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 04:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by cluff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't worry hun, you will someday. Love will find you when you are NOT particularly looking for IT. I'm 16 and I've never had one. I've been asked out but just haven't found that special guy yet and I'm gonna wait until I at least graduate this high school scene. aha, everyone's immature at this age and naive, not to mention.
2007-11-01 17:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ask this girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait Until you are 16 to worry about stuff like that. Very few people in my Jr. High dated.
2007-11-01 17:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by Shazam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your not confident! younger especially. guys cant go up to a girl who cowers, even if you ask them out and you dont seem into it, they will say no. be confident, think of all the GOOD stuuf, not the bad!
2007-11-01 17:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't have a b/f if you cannot legally operate a motor vehicle
2007-11-01 17:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
13 is not 20.. you'll find someone soon..
2007-11-01 17:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by Bee 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe its your personality and have you looked at the mirror latley
2007-11-01 17:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by Don Reyes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur 13
Sometimes guys get intimidated by pretty girls.
2007-11-01 17:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by ▀▄▀▄▀ кαяίs ▄▀▄▀▄ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋