ok, i am 12 and i am a girl. and i really want a bf. i like two guys, but they are both my friends. when will i have a bf?!???
2007-11-01 17:23:45 · 38 answers · asked by taylor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aren't you supposed to be concentrating on your grades?
2007-11-01 17:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by witch2order 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First, ask yourself why you want a boyfriend. If it's because, "You want to," that's not a good reason. If it's because your friends want to, that's not a good reason. if it's because you're interested in getting to know a guy to eventually marry and have kids with, that's a pretty darn good reason.
All girls and guys get boy/girlfriends at different times. Some people mature sooner, some later. It really varies- even if you don't have a boyfriend by the time you're 30, it's perfectly fine. If you want a boyfriend now, and you *are* mature enough to handle it, you could get one soon. Just don't worry about it, and certainly NEVER get a boyfriend because your friends want you too, or you feel 'left out' of the boyfriend circles or whatever.
2007-11-01 17:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have one when you stop worrying about the small picture and start thinking about the bigger picture. Like what do I want to be when I grow up. Surely not a s*** with three kids before your time or a whore with aids. And I hope you don't want to be a jump off. That's a girl who is smart enough to protect herself from pregnancy and diseases, But sleeps around for fun because she has low self esteem or in desperate need for attention. If those two boys are your friends then what are you REALLY ASKING?? When will I have SEX?? The name boyfriend is a nice way to describe a guy you are sexual with or thinking about being sexual with. Now is that what you really want.
Think about it...
2007-11-01 17:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by Bumblebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. I have a friend who is now 25 and has worried about men since she was your age. She still can't get and keep one but she still will not give up on them. It is all she thinks about. It's sad. I think you should worry about you, finding out what you like, who you would like to grow up to become and what kind of qualities you would like in a young man. I think 16 is a decent age to start thinking about boys. Yes boys they will stay boys till they are about 25 and even there there are still some that stay boys.
If you really want to go out with one of those boys, start talking to them more, make friends with them, and see where it goes from there. If you are already friends with them start hanging around them more (as long as they aren't too much older than you, guys are are too much older than you are now have a way of talking younger girls into doing anything they want don't let them do that) I'm rambling now. I'll leave you alone.
2007-11-01 17:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Morganna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound kinda desperate for a 12 year old, and u shouldnt like your friend and both of them at the same time too, you'll get a bf when your in high school
2007-11-01 17:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by crazylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Later
2007-11-01 17:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep them as friends and wait till you're older.
Spread yourself around and just make friends at this stage in your life. You'll have plenty of time for more serious boyfriends in a few years time.
Don't jump into something you're not really ready for just to be part of a group. Plus most of the boys you meet now will have little experience in relashionships at your ages.
2007-11-01 17:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey don't worry! you'll be fine just wait for the guy to come. It takes time and patience! I have gone through 3 guys already. Take it from experience. Don't rush no reason to fit in when you know it doesn't work out right! I try but never works all my friends have bf but i don't. i just need prince charming to come along and sweep me off my feet. it'll come trust me.
2007-11-01 17:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by Katana_Ushida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you shoudn't really be tripping on having a "boyfriend" that's just a title...meaning thats just a name for having a cool guy friend that yiou like hanging around all the time...you might already have a "boyfriend" and not know it...just have fun with your guys friends...don't worry about all that other stuff...just have fun and hang out with your guys friends that you are cool with... :)
2007-11-01 17:29:55 · answer #9 · answered by Honey Luv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get off the computer and go spend some time with them. Seriously, though. You are only 12, you need to not worry about boys. There is PLENTY of time for boys and I am speaking as one when I say this: We aren't anything to get that excited about. :)
2007-11-01 17:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by C C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you should wait until you atleast 14(probably 15)
You are more ready physically and emotionaly.
You have less of a chance of doing something you regret.
You have more of a chance of having a better bf and staying together longer and probably getting hurt less.
2007-11-01 17:27:54 · answer #11 · answered by newsies62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋