So I was boothing at this religious convention and passing out pamphlets and water to a lot of people, many cute girls included. The next day this random girl who was deifnitely at the convention adds me as a friend on facebook. I never met her or talked to her the previous day but she must have seen me since i gave out stuff to everyone there. After i accept her request to be friends, she sends me a message abt 5 min later saying: hey, thanks for the add. Btw u'r cute.ahhah. So I thought it was little weird since we didnt meet and she's so up front about such a thing when girls are usually shy about such things. But i was flattered and liked her boldness, so i messaged her back abt 8 hours later saying exactly what my friend who is really good with this PUA business told me to say, which was: thank you. but, you know, after dating around ive learned looks arent everything. a person cant change who they really are. so tell me, what are three qualities about yourself that you think woul
2007-11-01 17:09:12 · 7 answers · asked by berkeley_09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all girls are shy. By saying that I don't mean that the bold girls are the bad girls. You have to sort them out for yourself. I think she was just trying to flirt. Maybe a little flirt back would have been a better reply. By suggesting that she likes what she sees is only seeking out whether or not it is likewise. Maybe your response was a little deep for the first step. Maybe dating around has stung once or twice. Try to keep an open mind and keep it simple. You don't want to scare her, do you?
2007-11-01 17:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The nicest answer for your situation is to invite the girl for cofee?
And get to know her first. Deal with her looks after youve met her.
What if shes a match and compliemts you however isnt the model on a cover of vogue....
I think girls can be bold when they have the upper hand,
theyre very analytical, and critiqal of many things,
however, she probably has been studying you so why not give her the chance to meet her object of study....
YOU....
2007-11-01 17:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by Curiosity Rules! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face book is changing the way people interact... it's like beer muscles for the computer reliant... it's good to open dialog with her the way you did... bold for bold... good work and good luck!
2007-11-01 17:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. & Mrs. Davis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is really weird. why can't you just respond in kind like
"I don't remember meeting you, maybe we should have coffee" instead of challenging her.
2007-11-01 17:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet her then ask her out i am sure she'll say yes i hope ok best of luck
2007-11-01 17:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?
Anyway, see if she has realy personality first.
2007-11-01 17:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your question?
2007-11-01 17:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by dancer5224 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋