my fiancee and i have been together for almost two years. he still talks to his ex. sneaks around on the computer to do it. can you have a friendship with someone you once loved like that? i'm suspicious.i know they don't get together as she lives hours away.
2007-11-01 17:00:27 · 6 answers · asked by laynelover68 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he still has feelings.... you can't be friends with an ex unless you still love them or never loved them at all
2007-11-01 17:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by Kasey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok for your fiancee to talk to his ex. Its a sign of maturity that they broke up and are still able to remain friends.
What is not ok is that he is sneaking around. You should accept the friendship only on the terms that anything he says to his ex he should be able to say in front of you. That way, you know he has nothing to hide.
Maybe you want to become friends with the ex as well? She might be a nice person! Either way, congrats on getting engaged.
2007-11-01 17:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by StorkRadio.com 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people can remain friends after breaking up. However, it does seem rare.
I think the part that would bother me is that he sneaks around to communicate with her. You say that they don't get together, but I still would wonder why he feels like he has to sneak around.
2007-11-01 17:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by star22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 1st, I saw nothing wrong with this, but as i read more he's just another immuture lil boy!! Dump him, and find a faithful man!!
2007-11-01 17:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by happywjc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm one thing is talking to her but trying to be all sneaky is something not good.if i was you i would try snoopying around and try look @ anything suspicious of what he writes.if not just confront him and tell him what he's doing is bothering u and making it seem like he's hiding something.
2007-11-01 17:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he still have a special something for her.
If given the perfect opportunity...he will probably dump you for his ex.
2007-11-01 17:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋