I was wondering why people think cheating is such a big deal.
I've never actually been in a real relationship.
I wondering why people get so upset over it.
Is it really that big of a deal if your boyfriend/girlfriend kisses someone else?
i would really like other peoples opinions on this.
maybe i'd understand better if i had actually been in a real relationship..
2007-11-01 16:51:23 · 15 answers · asked by blair. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can see why you wouldn't want to.
i just don't see why people get all worked up about it.
i'm 15 btw to whoever asked.
2007-11-02 23:41:12 · update #1
It's mostly the idea that the person's partner is having a sexual relationship with someone else, which makes the injured party feel like they aren't performing to the other's expectations.
I don't refer to it as cheating, but broadening ones horizons.
2007-11-01 16:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by David T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! CHEATING is really a big deal when it comes to relationship.
Because when you enter into a relationship, there is this unwritten deal, or a promise that you only love this person and no one else. If you cheat, you are breaking off with that deal or contract.
For a relationship to work, there should be the 3 C's
communication (honesty), commitment (loyalty) and compromise (agreement to meet half-way).
This is true for all kinds of relationships, between friends, lovers and family members.
2007-11-01 17:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by aileen a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think cheating is not a big deal thats ok but, when your really diggin on someone and your ready to give yourself to them....... heart, body soul and mind and you find that special someone fooling around on you, especially caught in the act, you actually feel physical pain in your heart(or at least in my experience). Everybody is different but I can tell you this much the pain is always there, it can last however long but honestly thats something I hope I NEVER go through again!!!
2007-11-01 17:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by Preshdove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will understand once you get in a relationship. When you both agree to be exclusive to one another, and someone breaks that agreement, it's a huge betrayal. It's something that takes a long time (if ever) to be forgiven. Some people are in open relationships, but unless you both agree to having relationships with other people, it leads to hurt and heartache.
2007-11-01 16:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mika 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a big deal...?? why would u go with someone if u didnt like or love him or her...and part of love is trust that the issue.....trust prob most important issue in a relationship without trust then u cant be in love and when someone breaks that trust everything that person believed about u or in you is pretty much gone knowing that u were with someone else besides the person u "love" and how old r u...?
2007-11-02 07:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by littlevietstud@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..yes you would understand better if you have been in a real relationship. But being together is a commitment like ur 20 and ur mom just is like "im not ur mom anymore peace out" after everything you've established with her and the feelings you've shared
2007-11-01 16:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by ipod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-23 06:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow Blair, obviously you are very young. You have much to learn. Think of it as being let down by someone you trust the most. Someone told your biggest secret to everybody in school. Imagine how you would feel.
2007-11-01 16:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by Solomon Grundy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let us know when you have been screwed over a couple of times then let us know how getting dumped makes you feel. Kissing is the least part of cheating.
2007-11-01 16:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by trusansno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, once your in a relationship you'll understand the feeling of betrayal.
2007-11-01 16:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by repeat offender 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋