To have a bachelorette party knowing that she could get drunk and stupid and end up screwing the stripper?
I don't understand how guys allow this stuff!
2007-11-01 14:36:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
This isn't about me. I was just reading some old posts about bachelorette parties. In like 33% of the posts, the bride to be went off with the stripper!
2007-11-01 14:41:55 · update #1
You know what...I don't think it has anything to do with trust....it has to do with respect.
Some couples are completely o.k. with their partner seeing strippers...or going together to see strippers for that matter (I have friends who do this)
Personally, my fiance and I both reject this practice of strippers at pre-wedding parties. Instead we want to either have evenings with our friends....doing girly things or for him going paintballing with abunch of guys for example.
Or something else that has become quite popular in the last few years in having a Jack and Jill party. It's when you have the bachelor and bachelorette party together. You get to hang out with all your friends together, party and have a good time as a group.
To me that's the way to go! ;-)
2007-11-01 15:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny you should say that. According to anything I've ever read, it's men who end up sleeping with female strippers more often than the other way around.
Regardless of who cheated on whom, these are marriages that obviously shouldn't go through (or shouldn't have if they did). Trust and faithfulness are the cornerstones of any healthy, lasting relationship. You would think people would know their chosen future life mates better, and that people wouldn't agree to get married if they still felt they needed to screw around!
As for strippers in general, I just don't like them and neither does my husband. It's a waste of good money and we're just not into it. However, if one of us or the other wanted to go see strippers, we wouldn't need the other's permission. We're still individuals for goodness sake. It is not a guy's place to "allow" anything! Seeing strippers for a few good laughs with your friends vs. seeing them to get drunk, horny and laid are two very, very different things. If you don't trust your partner, you shouldn't be together. Period.
2007-11-01 15:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have trust issues. And no woman wants to be with a stripper as they are all disgusting.
Also maybe your girl shouldn't allow you to have a bachelor party for the same reasons, (which statistically are more likely than at a bachelorette party).
I don't know how GIRLS allow this stuff!
Maybe you need some TRUST in your relationship so both of you have the FREEDOM to be who you are and not be controlled by the other
2007-11-01 14:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by Stiffler 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what the? how would any1 be happy with that?
Its extremely unfair that its often expected the groom can have a stripper while the bride can not, but if either of them are willing and do go off with another person, wether that be a stripper, friend or stranger, just days or weeks before their wedding then they are obviously not ready to be married.
My fiance and I both have agreed for no strippers at my hens or his bucks night.
2007-11-01 17:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but i am sure you think it is acceptable for guys to have bachelor parties with strippers. The things male strippers do at parties is completely different than female strippers. I would not be worried.
2007-11-01 22:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by sden2616 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a person does not trust the guy or girl, then they should not be getting married.
If the person goes off with the stripper, then be glad it happened BEFORE the "I do's" and cake cutting!
If you "know" she/he could end up screwing a stripper you don't trust your SO and therefore should not get married.
2007-11-01 18:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a bacherlorete should be fine as long as you know you have total trust in your significant other. but hey if you soon to be wife goes off with the stripper then it shows that you probley shouldnt marry that person anyways. if there going to have sex and leave with a stripper then imagne what they do after a while of being married.
2007-11-01 14:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by bebe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"allow". How do you get off thinking that the guys "Allow" anything.
BTW, not all bachelorette parties involve stippers!
How rude, obnoxious, and demeaning of a question!
2007-11-02 02:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by nova_queen_28 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called trust. It's very important in a marriage.
2007-11-01 14:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by Jill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think there is a chance of her screwing someone,
apparently there is a trust issue. Are you sure
she is the one?
2007-11-01 14:39:32 · answer #10 · answered by Cher 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋