Me and him we been cool for a while now and i know i care for him as more then a friend and yeah it is awesome in that way but damn to give it up to him i dont know it feels so right though.. it would be my 1st time and i want you to tell me should i have sex with my best bud? even though he has a girlfriend arleady and yeah i dont know what our relationship would be like after either way i love him ........ and i dont wanna stop it .... plz reply before saturday cause dats our day:P
2007-11-01 13:01:38 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do it. I get the impression that you're young, so I don't think you're emotionally mature enough to handle a no-strings sexual fling with your friend. You'll lose him.
However, sex IS supposed to be fun, so if you're safe and you won't turn into a major headcase afterwards then I say, "Go for it. Have fun!"
Think about it first.
2007-11-01 13:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by ►solo 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
No, please don't do it. He's not even your boyfriend, and he has a girlfriend. So he's the type of guy who would cheat on one girl to have sex with another. You deserve more. Wait until there is someone you love (more than a friend) who will offer you that love, and an exclusive relationship, in return BEFORE you have sex.
Your first time should be special, and that doesn't sound like something special. Just remember virginity doesn't have to have a use-by date. You can and should wait until its right for you.
2007-11-01 13:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse not-he's already got a girl-i have alot of friends that are dogs and for some reason i just cant do that to the woman i love-I dont think you should for 2 reasons-he has a girlfriend, and he's yer best bud girl-c'mon...not yet-there is always tomorrow-it doesnt have to be saturday-think about it-wait an extra week-maybe 2???you wont regret waiting-will make it even better if it turns out that way-what makes u think that if u 2 ended up together that he wouldnt do that to you?-just something to think-about...choose wisely
2007-11-01 13:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are talking about sleeping with your friend. A friend that already has a girlfriend? I would hope that the answer would be obvious! Please don't do that to yourself OR the girlfriend. I am sorry to say but it sounds like he would just be using you and then throwing you to the side. Love yourself more!!! You can do it. Don't give in to something like this when it is obvious he doesn't feel the same. If he did he wouldn't have a girlfriend.
2007-11-01 13:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by ellijaymom 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend, which is a huge red flag to me.
I was in a similar situation with my best friend; we dated on and off, and wanted each other pretty badly. We never did have sex, and looking back, I'm glad. Having sex can -- and usually does -- dramatically affect a relationship, whether you're just friends or in a relationship. It can affect it negatively, especially if one or both of you regrets it (the girlfriend being in the picture makes this a MAJOR possibility).
Don't do it. If he's your best friend, then sex is not worth losing him over.
2007-11-01 13:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by War Games AM 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No. Stay friends and don't give it up until you're ready to make a serious commitment. Friend or not, he'd probably vanish from your life with amazing speed if you became pregnant. There's a lot more at stake than just your friendship.
2007-11-01 13:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No No No. You should not have sex with your best friend who is attached. Would you like it if you were her girlfriend. ???
The Devil is tempting you. You should not be around him if you think of him in that way. Go out and volunteer. Put your mind on helping others and giving them a smile on their face.
Don't put yourself in that situation of a physical relationship with him. You will only be letting yourself down in the long run. He is with someone else and why would anyone really want someone who will cheat with them?????
2007-11-01 13:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
WHAT.THE.HELL.IS.WRONG.WITH.YOU?!
HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND!!!!!
What does that sound like to you, you horn dog?
In your head does it sound like "OH, he has a girlfriend but it's completely okay to go and SCREW HIM and HURT THE GIRLFRIEND just as long as you [horny toad] get's some pleasure from it" ????!!!!!!!!!!!!!
CHEATERS SUCK!!!!!!!
IF YOU HAVE A CONSCIENCE AT ALL, YOU WOULD NOT EVER CHEAT ON SOMEONE OR BE INVOLVED IN CHEATING ON SOMEONE AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!
You obviously don't know how much it hurts EVERYONE.!!!!!!!!
I hope one day you get married to some one you love and they cheat on you!!
In the meantime, if you DON'T have a conscience go ahead and go DO HIM because one day he'll screw you over just like he is to his girlfriend. And in the end, you'll both be horrible people!
Thanks for the 2 frickin points.
Scum bag.
2007-11-01 13:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by x.vegetarian animal lover.x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know - do you want to? I think that's the most important question to ask. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks. Having sex with a friend has HUGE consequences. Nothing will ever be the same again.
FP
2007-11-01 13:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it!!!! When you fall in love with someone you will wish that you had saved your self for him. And he has a girl so that makes it worse. To me it sounds like he is just trying to get it from who ever he can. Plus if you do you will start to like him and then you will get jealous because he is with another girl. And that will ruin your friendship. Please don't do it you will regret it sooner or later.
2007-11-01 13:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by LaRae 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋