I hate everything about it. My mom forces me to sit in a car for 5 hours, drive to maryland to my cousins house, hes married to a woman with a 32 yr old daughter(not his) he has no kids with her. She has 4 kids- he calls himself the grandfather. His wifes family of 35 people are there who i dont know, arent friendly, make wise remarks to me about feeling bad that i live in nyc.
i also heard my cousin say that ive never been to a house before and i live in a nyc apartment and hes doing me a favour.
He doesnt even know me, i have friends in college whos families have mansions and their parents are much nicer to me.
In fact my friend invited me for thanksgiving, should i go?
I hate my cousin and his family, my mom thinks she had to go to his house,,, she told me if she tells him NO he will be mad and never talk to her again.
2007-11-01 12:46:56 · 9 answers · asked by tbo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
im 19, hes 50.
what do i have to do with his wifes family?
2007-11-01 12:47:55 · update #1
there the ones with the hate, as soon as i walk in my cousins house his family says "hey its the yankess, hide your wallets"
then they wise crack me the whole night and eat in seperate rooms for dinner.
2007-11-01 12:57:51 · update #2
Thanksgiving is not a selfish holiday, so stop focusing on your problems. It's about giving thanks...hence the name.
You need to focus on being grateful for what you have and not only looking at things negatively, and start showing a little more love and a little less hate. Maybe you should volunteer at a soup kitchen this Thanksgiving.
2007-11-01 12:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Which question are you actually trying to ask?
What do you hate about Thanksgiving?
The fact that my family is dead, and I have no where to go for such a holiday.
Should you go with to your friend's house for Thanksgiving because you don't get along with your actual family?
If you don't want to go, you're 19 years old, and you have the choice. You're not a child anymore, and your mother can't force you to go... I agree with what another person said, you should really take time to reflect upon what this holiday is really about and volunteer at a soup kitchen or something.
2007-11-01 20:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate thanksgiving cause all my family doesn't want to get together anymore. We don't get along. MY parents don't care. they go to my step dad's brothers house and leave the rest of us just hanging. I usually just consider it a day of from work, nothing more.
2007-11-01 20:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have nothing to do with the wife's family if you choose not to. But think of your Mom, would it be nice without HER??
2007-11-01 19:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by cheri h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I hate people who eat like they are starving, they sound like pigs.
2007-11-01 23:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by kickindevilbutt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your friends your parent's will understand. Then you don't have to be around your snotty cousin.
2007-11-01 19:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by ... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Having no where to go.
2007-11-01 20:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
i hate cooking all day and then u dont even eat half of it. and then ur stuck with leftovers forever..haha
2007-11-01 19:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by bsbrulez92704 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Blah, blah,blah...
U cry a lot...
2007-11-01 19:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by Bubi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋