i feel stupid and they are pretty too. Please help!
2007-11-01 12:24:13 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IM 14! MY FRIENDS DON"T HAVE A BOYFRIEND AND IM NOT THINKING HAVING A BOYFRIEND IS LIKE HAVING A TROPHY! SORRY IM JUST WANTED TO SAY THIS!
2007-11-01 13:29:06 · update #1
you dont have a bf... HA
2007-11-01 12:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋
More and likely your the pretty one. You just don't have the confidence that they do thats all. Work on being you and being fabulous. Not only pretty girls have boyfriends or get married. Think about it, also; don't settle for the first guy that wants to be your boyfriend have some standards in the mean time be happy and single. Go out with other single friends. Think about it, sometimes your friends have to sit there and watch there wonderful boyfriends play video games all day be glad your not that girl yet <3
2007-11-01 12:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by SiCnGaged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. There is no need to rush into having a boyfriend. I had my first real boyfriend when i was 16 and now I'm 19 and i wished that i would have waited to have a boyfriend. You need to concentrate more on having fun and enjoying life because when you get older the fun is pretty much goes when all the responsibility comes. Enjoy your days of being young. There will be plenty of time later in your life to have a boyfriend.
2007-11-01 12:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by jasmine.smith60 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are or what having a boyfriend means in your age group. Do you go out in groups or in pairs. Does it mean someone to walk to classes? can't give a lot of advice unless I know these things. Are you feeling left out? Do you want to spend more time with them or have a boyfriend of your own? Are you old enough to have a boy and girl (chaperoned, of course) party at your home.? You could invite several attached and unattached classmates and see what happens. You could also try having a friend who is a boy. Sometimes feelings change and you might end up with a boyfriend.
2007-11-01 12:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by sreist1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend is a person who knows all about you and loves you anyway. Perhaps if you are so insecure about the people that you consider as friends, maybe you need to re- evaluate the situation. Take a long look in the mirror maybe the problem begins with you.Boyfriends come a dime a dozen, you just keep your head up!!!
2007-11-01 12:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by lil red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll realize this later (sorry for sounding patronizing, but it's true!!), but "winning" a boyfriend isn't like winning a prize. Just 'cause your friends have boyfriends, doesn't mean they are better. You have to find someone you like who likes you and that takes time. frankly, I've found that when I was younger, all the dudes were idiots anyways! I didn't start dating until I was 19, it's no big thing!
2007-11-01 12:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Vida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel about seeing others with someone and you have no one, I'm experiencing that now. One thing to consider is if you had a boyfriend who beat you, disrespected you or wanted you only for sex, how would that make you feel. The main thing is quality. You don't just want any guy, you want one who will love you for you. It will happen, then maybe your friends will be jealous of you. :)
2007-11-01 12:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not going to increase your chances of attracting a boy to you if you're walking around being all bummed out. Having a boy friend isn't something like winning a prize in a contest. It takes time to build relationships. Give yourself time and don't try to match your life with the lives of others. And who says you're not pretty?
2007-11-01 12:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by Richard B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be stupid, but it's a natural feeling and pretty common, too. The fact that you recognize it is good. Try your best to get over it by being happy for your friend (or maybe they'll get in an awful fight and they'll break up!).
2007-11-01 12:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by dashelamet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupid is a harsh word. Let's use...silly. We always seem to want what the other person has. Most of the time what they have isn't always as good as it looks.
Someday you will have a boyfriend. You just have to be patient. Be secure in who you are. When you work on improving your self-esteem and self-worth, you put yourself in high demand.
2007-11-01 12:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by britters621532 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not stupid at all. some would experience that feeling because it makes one wonder as to what's in you that makes you still single... Stop focusing about others and start focusing about yourself and your good qualities. Having a special someone is not a contest. Enjoy being single, being pretty and young. Go out and have fun! Being confident and totally secure about one self makes you or makes one attractive. Who Knows??? someone would love that attitude in you.
2007-11-01 12:29:48 · answer #11 · answered by DDT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋