I have a huge crush on this girl in my english class and i met her like a month ago and we talk a lot but wen the topic bout her 'past' comes by she refuses to tell me anything bcoz shes really iffy bout who she trusts and that shes only known me for 6 hrs outta her whole life (we have english only once a week). So yea... how do i gain her trust? PLZ HELP
we r both in first year college but shes 19 and im turnin 18 in december
2007-11-01 11:57:19 · 3 answers · asked by Letsgofishing 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uhm try getting her aim or email or number and hang out wid each other i guess u shud start by tellingg her ur past to make her comfortable
2007-11-01 12:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should not pressure her into telling you her past, maybe you should take step by step and get to know her more, as in going on dates more often, b/c the more you talk and hang out with a person, the more their trust builds up. Or maybe she just haven't yet overcame her past and she doesn't want to speak on it to just anyone yet. It'll take time but she'll come through, just prove that you care and that her secrets are safe with you.
2007-11-01 19:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by shondared 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient. She will eventually trust you if you just give her the time and space that she needs.
By the way, why is her past so intriguing. Try learning about her present first. Her past is her business anyway.
2007-11-02 01:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋