I couldn't stand to talk to her for about 8 months and then out of the blue, she called. We went to see her and everything. You know, BIG reunion and all that crap. Well she said she would call at least weekly and I've haven't heard from her in about a year! I've called her and txted her and she won't answer. I've tried to forgive, I've even shut her out of my life for about a year, I've done all I can think of doing.. I've emailed her AND sent her letters. What should I do. Every time I think about her, I cry. HELP!!! I need some advice. Thanks... :-(
2007-11-01 11:43:48 · 26 answers · asked by **kayraa(: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I've told her how she made me feel, and all she said was "Ummm"
2007-11-01 11:51:13 · update #1
She's like 20 and doesn't even talk to her parents. So that's out of the Q. She has also kinda shut everyone of our fam. out of her life to.
2007-11-01 11:53:35 · update #2
I know it hurts and its really hard, because I've been through exactly the same thing but there comes a point were you have to realize she isn't worth it anymore. You have done all you can, reached out to her, tried to keep in touch and clearly she doesn't appreciate that so you shouldn't have to put yourself through that. If she wants to contact you that's great but if not its her lose not yours. You have been the better person and forgiven her when clearly she didn't deserve it. Don't let her actions hurt you because you probably have so many other people who care about you and are worth your time.
2007-11-01 11:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by Passions 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Remember your cousin has to put effort in you girls' relationship. I realize that it may be a hard time...perhaps next time you get a chance to contact her let her now how hard it is for you to not talk to her. Keep trying to find her. Search popular sites like facebook, myspace and all of that and maybe you will find her or someone who knows her. But don't put your life on hold because of this. You need to know that maybe enough is enough, so don't look for her for TOO long and just try to forget about her because things happen for a reason. If she wasn't meant to be in contact with you...there must be a reason. Best of luck.
2007-11-01 18:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although I'm sure you care about your cousin, you need to move on. If she's not contacting you, then that means she doesn't want to. Even if you stay awake every single night worrying about it, it's not going to change anything. So instead of being sad and always hoping for something that won't happen, try to accept the changes and the fact that she's not going to call, and move on so that you yourself won't be sad. =]
2007-11-01 18:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by julia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm.............she might have a huge secret that she thinx she might blurt out if she talks.Maybe shes saving the secret and keeping it away from everyone.Or maybe she got into a fight with some ppl in ur family and shes scared to talk to anyone cuz she thinx she might get into another fight,that would ruin her whole relationship with the family.Other than that she probably dont care about family or she dont kno wat the true meaning of it is.Or,she might have a harmful stress
problem.It says in my Health Book at school.U should take her to someone that she will talk about it with.
2007-11-02 16:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seem that either one of you is ignoring each other, and the only thing i can come up with this is go to your cousin(if u know where he/she is) talk to your cousin face to face, but don't BE at her face just talk calmly and ask why. Sometime people maybe busy or that they don't have time to talk so they put it aside. This happen to me when i was young my cousin and I fight then after 2 week not talking to each other we was friend again. Normally it hard to shut someone out and harder to not talk about it, i say go face to face.----------I hope this help
2007-11-01 18:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate to be so bold, but forget her. You are wasting negative feelings on someone who is not worthy.
Hate and despair are two emotions that you would be better off without. Harboring one or both is like taking poison and expecting it to affect the other person.
2007-11-01 18:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you talk to her, you should TELL her how you're feeling. It's not right for a person to be tossed around like that.
2007-11-01 18:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by Brendan D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your cousin has some isue than call her parents and ask what happened and it'll all work out good luck i hope you guys are close again
2007-11-01 18:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by totalflirt1710 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow thats sad. I think you should stop writing and go visit her. Ask her "whats up with all this?" It's gonna be bugging you forever if you don't know why she is not answering you so go and visit her. Then you will know what to do depending on your visit.
2007-11-01 18:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by FishyFace 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You felt fine not talking her for 8 months. Why is this bothering you now? She just gave you some of your own medicine.
2007-11-01 18:48:15 · answer #10 · answered by Your dum 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋