ok so here's the deal i had this pretty cool bf he was nice but we were rlly good friends too!so it worked out pretty good.( hes blonde with green eyes hes rlly adorable!) The only problem was he didnt ever have time to hang out!!!!so we broke up.Well now he still likes me like ALOT and i still love him and he wants to get back toegether this weekend but theres this other boy that i sorta like ( dark black hair bark eyes SOOO CUTE lol) and he likes me but he also likes this other girl and he doesnt know if hes going to ask me out or not. We have plans to hang out this weekend. (we are also rlly good freinds)what if they both ask me out?? what should i do cause i like them both!!ALSO i sorta like being single =]
2007-11-01 11:41:16 · 20 answers · asked by Sabine L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-11-01 11:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by but... iluvhertoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing I've learned about relationships is that it's pointless to play games. This second guy you want to "see" or whatever who likes another girl....don't get caught up in that. If you truly care about that first guy than the lack of time you get to spend with each other won't matter in the end. You say you love him. Loving a person involves making sacrifices (like spending less time with each other because of a job, or any other commitment). Maybe living the single life for awhile is right for you though. Then you'll be able to decided what you want out of a relationship, what you want out of a boyfriend. Things happen for a reason and everything will work out in the end.
2007-11-01 11:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by mnkylvr2388 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the one you went out with before, is what I'll tell you and here's why:
The other guy also likes another girl besides you. Go with the one thats only into you and know he wants to be with you. If you choose this other guy, theres no guarentee he'll even pick you to be with. The first guy sounds like a nice person, and if things never went bad between you two before, You can begin where you left off.
Goodluck =)
2007-11-01 11:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by kinda_crazyish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first guy sounds like he cares about you a lot, while the second is sort of torn. My advice would be if you do to decide to get together with one of them go with your ex-boyfriend, he's still devoted to you even after you broke up while the other boy is just messing around. Of course if you still want to be single you could always just tell both of them that you don't want to go steady yet and date both, if they're okay with that, and see who you're happier with.
2007-11-01 11:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by Star M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like being single then why not just stick with it? As much as people love being in a relationship there's also people who love being single. Maybe you should just not commit yourself to anything and see how things play out. It gives you an opportunity to keep your options open and over time this situation might work itself out.
2007-11-01 11:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by Sar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you may have a big decision to make epecially if they both ask you out, if you get back with the guy with green eyes make sure you tell him you need to spend more time together, if he not prepared to do that then go out with the other guy!!!!
Or you could either tell them that you need a bit of time to work things out!!
2007-11-01 11:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, aren't you popular. just go with your feelings. go back to your memories like which of those boys make you smile the most. and don't worry you can still be friend with the other boy since they both have someone else that They also like. Dont be stuck up to your feelings or you'll lose them.
hope this help
2007-11-01 11:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW YOU'RE IN A BIND!!!! Well all I can do is give advice, u have to do the desision making!!! It really depends on which one you like betr. They both sound cute. I' try it with your ex if the other dude has a gf. Just tell him that if it's gonna work he has to make time for his activities and you. Hope I helped!!!:)
2007-11-01 11:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by jonasbros1010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should stay single for a while and see how things go from there. If they ask you out just tell them that you want to take your time. Don't wait too long though.
2007-11-01 11:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be more independent. Enjoy your youth and have many friends, both boys and girls. Don't get too serious until you are ready for a commitment. Good luck.
2007-11-01 11:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by Paulus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you are saying, I would just all hang out and not date anybody. It doesn't sound to me like you are ready for a relationship and should just enjoy hanging out all together as friends.
2007-11-01 11:46:36 · answer #11 · answered by doctor love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋