I haven't said a word to him since school started. He's only in one class of mine, spanish, He is good looking but not like all of those jerks that think they are really hot and too good for the rest of us girls. I catch him looking at me sometime. I want to start talking to him but I don't know how? What's a cute way to start talking to him and breaking the ice? He knows my name already. So i dont want to say hi my name is... lol help please. I'm 14 btw if that is needed.
2007-11-01 11:23:05 · 23 answers · asked by omgitstbaby 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just look at him. Make sure he sees you looking and when he looks back... Smile.
That's about all it takes. If he is shy and doesn't approach you.. .Just go up to him and say, Hi... I'm ________ I saw you looking at me the other day....
2007-11-01 11:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just be casual... join into a group he may be in... or ask him to help you out with some spanish... unless he is a bad student.... then just accidentally bump into him... eye contact can do a lot you don't even have to talk... try and make eye contact as much as possible without seeming obsessed or stalkerish..... and just be calm and don't say anything silly... dont worry something will come to you... and by the way i am 14 too and been through this many times.
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2007-11-01 18:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet And Sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about pretend to have a question about some Spanish homework either before class or after wards? Or if you pass him in the hall or after school make a comment about Spanish or something. That would be a good icebreaker and it wouldn't look too desperate.
2007-11-01 18:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by ~Shelly~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, breathe...Are you breathing? Good. Most men like women who can just chill for a sec and breathe....Just flash a quick, dazzling smile toward his way. This will let him know that you are interested. After all, he already is interested in you. He looked at you and smiled. You have nothing to worry about. Just say Hi and be your wonderful, smart, beautiful self...the rest will come out the way it will come out. It also could be possible that he may be a little shy. Thats OK, once he sees you coming his way, he will break outta his shell along with you...have fun!!!!
2007-11-01 18:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by Shellza Y 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him U think he's cute or if he'll sit with u at lunch, but say it in spanish. It's early enough in the year where he probably doesn't know much spanish so he'll say "what was that?' Now he's asked u a question. Just roll with it after that. If a girl did that to me she'd have my full attention.
2007-11-01 18:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by ezwill29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a number of things you can do;
bump into him, and knock his books to the ground. then get real embarrassed and say something, "oh my god i am such a klutz, are you ok?"
ask him about a homework problem.
what ever you do, be willing to laugh at yourself to keep him off guard. you also want to peak his interest. find out what he likes, and do some study on that subject, so that when you ask questions about it, you wont come off looking like a star struck idiot.
2007-11-01 18:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by richard b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit and write out 5 reasons you think for him looking at you......more good or more bad? Probably more good....probably likes ya....
walk over and say hi, its that simple, deviate into classroom chatter about studies etc then go for social talk; before you know it you will dig out more common ground topics u can talk about.
2007-11-01 18:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all starts off with a "hi".. you could maybe start with things you have in common . just try not to look desperate (im not saying you are) but it scares alot of guys off. or maybe join a afterschool program that he is in.. if he joined one. or like many others suggested ask him questions during class.. who knows b4 u kno it u 2 could be great friends or more =) good luck
2007-11-01 18:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by ♥K2 bby K2♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
easy
concentrate on school
get straight A's
try to get a scholarship to college
get a great career
you'll have planty of time for dudes, drool, labidos
learn first
guys should be the last thing on ur mind
unless you plan on being another unwed mother on welfare
aka societal cancer
2007-11-01 18:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're making this way harder than it needs to be. People in classes are usually very friendly. Ask him about homework, ask him what he thinks about the class, ask him about his clothes or ipod or whatever.
2007-11-01 18:26:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋