Ok, when I was born I was bapized into the Roman Catholic Church. I took my first communion there, then several years later, my Dad remarried a woman and left the church.
It's been about seven years since then, and about six years since my dad has been making me go to an Episcopal Church. Actually, that was probably my step-mom's influence (who, by the way, I like less and less as the years go by), and less of my Dad's choice.
I'm supposed to be going to the Roman Catholic church (according to my mom and dad's divorce agreement), and I've heard it's really bad that I've taken communion and have been accepted into the youth group at the Episcopal church.
Should I go back to the Roman Catholic church, despite the fact that my Dad's still in this new church? Will the Roman Catholic Church even let me back?
Sincerely, Church Troubled.
2007-11-01 11:15:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I'm fourteen years old, for those who are wondering.
Thanks for all the answers!
2007-11-01 13:25:39 · update #1
Pastor Billy says: you've been an obedient daughter and that is good in the eyes of the Catholic Church. The Church will understand your position and not hold it against you however as a Catholic taking communion in the Episcopal community is a bad thing as we are not in full communion with them. There is obviously more than meets the eye here as Catholicism does not teach divorce is allowable but that is another matter right now we are concerned with your spiritual welfare. I sense the youth group might be of interest to you is there one at a Catholic parish near by? You should investigate this option and remember searching for God is a search for truth never decide on a church because you like the fellowship and atmosphere. Read some of my question/answers and don't allow all the anti-Catholics on here to influence your decision they will never provide a balanced answer.
I've read several of them and they consistently separate God from his Church. Piety and holiness and a love of God is all good but we must strive to do the will of God and Jesus Christ wants us to be one and obedient to the one authority he left us, which Protestant church is this? Discover your Catholic history, and you'll discover the early Christian Church.
2007-11-01 22:32:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont just go along with what your parents want. Or what the divorce agreement was. Go along with what you believe. If you believe that you are better off at the Episcopal Church, then continue going there. If you feel that your beliefs are stronger at the Roman Catholic Church, try and go back.
2007-11-01 18:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by * 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the divorce agreement, in writing, said that you are to go to the Catholic church then your dad is obligated to GET you there, and he is not acting honorably by failing to do so.
Don't worry and be too hard on yourself about accepting communion at the Episcopalian church. The Catholic church will take you back, if you choose to go back.
But that is the big issue -- it is up to YOU to choose where you want to go to church.
2007-11-01 18:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, there are God's laws and then there are the laws of the church (specifically the Roman Catholic Church) and unfortunately- these often clash big time! I am not trying to be instigating here, but, havign a relationship with the Lord, I would not want to be in a church that would not let me back because i had communion somewhere else- I would not want to be somewhere that expected me to jump through all sorts of unbiblical hoops in order to earn or merit membership and then still have my record stained because of past activity- this is NOT what Jesus taught and it is NOT what he came to establish on this earth.
What is it that you believe?? Who do you say Jesus is?? Who is God to you?? Is it about a relationship, your salvation and redemption and walk into righteousness or is it about membership in the social club called the "church"? Are you wanting to shy away from the Episcopal church because of your uneasy relationship with your stepmom or is it because you do not agree with their doctrine?? Personally, I do not agree with the teachings and practices of either one of those churches, but for you- you are going to have to make the decision on your own and deal with the consequences or blessings of whatever decision you do make.
If it is all about pleasing man and pleasing 'the church' then I cannot help you- if it is about your relationship with the Lord and your personal faith then I would love to continue chatting with you.
2007-11-01 18:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would kindly ask your parents to stop making your decisions for you-- your religion is yours to choose, not theirs! They can not decide your beliefs for you, no human has a right to tell any other human what to believe and how to worship. You sound like you are perfectly capable of making the decision for yourself.
I would take a good look at both churches and see which one fits your needs and beliefs. And if neither do, then find a church that does, one that makes you happy to be you.
Good luck to you, I hope you find a good solution.
2007-11-01 18:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by mathaowny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what you are describing, why would you ever want to go back to the Roman Catholic Church?
2007-11-01 18:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
How old are you? I say, always, forget religion and follow Christ. If the caths believe you taking communion at a different fellowship is very bad then they do not know anything about GOD. And I was raised a cath so I can speak against the cult. If you are old enough find a Bible based fellowship and focus on your own walk with Christ. Praise the LORD.
2007-11-01 18:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
It all depends on how you feel if you like the current church stay there if you like the other one go back there. You also have the right to choose religions
2007-11-01 18:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by ultrasuperman1001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about the churches sweetheart. Worry about Jesus Christ and knowing Him. Ask the Lord to come into your life so you can know Him. Do you have a Bible? Read the Book of John and learn about Jesus. Did you know that the Christmas Story is in the Book of Luke chapter 2? Do you not know that you are the temple of the Lord. Ask the Holy Spirit to dwell within you and ask Him to increase your faith.
2007-11-01 18:31:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
God loves you no matter where you go. If you believe in Him and go and worship Him he is sooooo happy!!! The One who created you so carefully, who loves you so much, and only wants the best for you can see in your heart...that you Love Him and He is happy you worship him. Spend time alone with Him and you will be like me and find many surprises headed your way! If you ever worry, give Him all your worries and ask him to handle them for you. Believe He will and watch what He does!
2007-11-01 18:28:45 · answer #10 · answered by sassygirl2473 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋