1. 4 (I was raped) I was 26 when I slept with someone as a choice.
2. Age is very subjective, but I honestly believe that before 16 someone is not capable of making that decision on their life experience. And there is one basic rule to live by: You are notmature enough to have sex, unless you are mature enough to be a parent. PERIOD.
3. I did it at the right time for me.
4. I do not regret it.
2007-11-01 10:40:32
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answer #1
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answered by vlfranklin1999 5
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I'm still a virgin, and I don't mind it a bit. I'm glad I'm waiting until marriage. It's old fashioned, but it makes me feel good about myself.
I honestly think people should wait until they are 18 to lose their virginity. I mean, it is up to them, but once you're legally an adult, you don't have all the problems and stereotypes teenagers have for having sex before they are 18. Also, the older you are, the wiser you are.
But, to each their own.
I don't regret my decision. In fact, it has saved me a lot of heartache. I haven't had to find out I have an STD or that I could possibly be pregnant. Being a college student is stressful enough without those two things added onto the long list.
2007-11-01 10:40:42
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answered by Liz 5
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Age 26. When you get married and NOT before. Absolutely should have waited. Yes I regret it.
The Biblical answer, in case anyone cares... GOD says that to have sex before or outside of marriage is a sin. Since HE made us all and the "Rules", it might behoove us to listen (read His Word - the Bible) and pay attention to what He wants. We will all be judged some day (not too far in the future) for our sins. Fornication (sex outside of marriage when NOT married) and Adultery (sex with someone NOT your spouse when married) are both sins according to Christ Jesus and His Father (GOD). The rules HE gave in the Garden of Eden were for our own good! Course he also allows us to make our own choices (Free Will), but we risk the "Lake of Fire" for disobeying our Creator.
YOU decide whether you really want to loose your life (Permanently) for a moment of "Fun" or gain it for eternity.
2007-11-01 12:16:55
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answered by Biblical Man 1
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16.
Yes, I believe I was too young. Teenagers have no business having sex. As far as when someone should lose their virginity? When that person is mature enough to deal with the consequences (emotional, physical, possibly pregnancy, etc), and when they are with someone they trust. I didn't say "love", because that really depends on the person...some people need it to be in the confines of a loving relationship, others are fine with a "friend with benefits"...but it should be what that person is completely comfortable with. And definitely NOT at 16!!!
2007-11-01 10:37:55
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answered by War Games AM 5
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I am 37 and still a Virgin and yes, I regret it for waiting too long. All the intimate passion I could have had with a female at my younger years is unfortunately gone.
2007-11-01 17:45:19
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answered by Sirius70 5
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I was 15 and yes, I would suggest to wait....at least until you yourself have the feeling you are more "grown-up" and don't let yourself get pressured by your peers
I regret that i lost my virginity that young to somebody I really did not love...(and trust me you rarely really "love" somebody at that age! I mean true love) I should have waited until I met my soulmate, who I also married.
But then on the other side...it all happened for a reason and hey.... that's what developed "me"
2007-11-01 10:39:05
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answered by Anonymous
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I lost mine when i was 14. I think i should of wait for the right man.cause i got pregnant and i found out thats he was always cheating on me and i got tier of hearing it so i left him i had two beautiful kids with him..some times i do regret it cause this is not the way i wanted it to be.. i wanted for us to be a family ,but things happen for a reason..
2007-11-01 10:43:43
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answered by andree h 1
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I was 10; I was raped. I don't think that people under 18 should have sex, as the risks and consequences are too great. WHY rush it? I wish that I had had the CHOICE. "Regret" is not the word, since it was forced on me. I was hospitalized as a result of that brutal rape, and feel lucky that I survived.
2007-11-01 10:38:45
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answered by Anonymous
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I was 13. WAY too young! I wish I would have waited at least a couple more years. Yes I regret it. The boy was an idiot.
2007-11-01 10:37:29
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answered by corriegirl 2
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I never lost it . . . I know exactly where I left it . . .
I've never been sure why people refer to it as "losing" your virginity . . . most everyone knows when and where they gave it away. Anyway - I was 20 - don't regret it and think it was the perfect age.
2007-11-01 10:43:19
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answered by lunasage 6
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