OK- so there's this guy in school. He's a BIG flirt- and i've had a crush on him for two years. The problem? He's kind of a jerk. Yet he makes my life miserable because I really just only want him. No matter how much I tell myself he's awful, or that he's mean-I still want him. He's actually even now being mean to me. We have this English-project- and I told him he could be the Carpet-Maker, and he's like, "Oh no You're the Carpet-Muncher!" He has a sick and dirty mind, and I'm afraid all he thinks about is sex- but the only way to get him off my mind would be if I moved-wait-not even that-because when I did move away last year- I still thought about him a lot. I mean- I have cried over this guy. I've wrote books of songs for him-I dream about kissing him- what the hec do I do?
2007-11-01 10:29:50 · 3 answers · asked by Isabelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wooh you have got it bad.. i felt like this about a guy a year or so ago, i was too scared to actually say anything to him so nothing ever happened eventually someon else came along who i liked even moreand then i just sort of forgot about him so thats how i got over it. even though i thought i would never ever forget him i have.
You could try and get to known him more but if he really is a jerk then i wouldn't waste any more of your time on him, just look around and try and find someone else.
2007-11-01 10:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat him at his own game. I had a friend like this (guy friend but definitely not boyfriend material). He would say mean things to me, and it upset me. He was just teasing me; he wasn't really trying to be mean, that was just his personality. So I decided to get even. When he would say something foul or mean or dirty, I'd respond in kind. He would laugh and, in a really odd way, started to respect me for being able to keep up with his verbal sparring. So play the game with this guy.
As for the obsessive thing you've developed ... get over it. Do you really want a guy who treats you like crap in front of everyone? If you got together and all he did was insult you in front of your friends and family, would you really want to be around him? I want my boyfriend to treat me with respect and dignity; it's okay if he's dirty with his guy friends (or with me in the bedroom only), but it's not acceptable to call me names and be nasty in front of my grandmother!
2007-11-01 17:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well def. do not go out with him, jus give it time and do somethin to take ur mind off him u WILL lose interest in him soon
2007-11-01 17:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋