I've just started dating this guy, and i know he wants sex from me. And i kinda want it from him too. I think im ready, although im really nervous. I really like him alot, even though he definatly is a player. But im so confused. What do you think? Should i ? Im almost 15..
2007-11-01 10:10:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even though you may think you are ready.. but by you feeling nervous, and needing to ask this question on here, it shows your not ready. Sorry, have to agree with the others, no you shouldnt do it.
2007-11-01 10:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is ridiculous how much younger everyone is getting when they decide to give their body to someone for the first time. I think that you should really weigh out your decision before you just jump into this. Make your bed and lie in it! You probably don't know his history because you're too young to ask those questions without feeling awkward about it. I am in my 20's but I still set standards for myself and who I would sleep with. You don't know if he has a disease, or could get you pregnant, or what he will say after-wards. I say enjoy your youth and just live it up, make your decision a worthwhile thought out decision. NO BOY is worth your soul, body, or mind if they don't genuinely PROVE YOU ARE WORTH EVERYTHING TO HIM. I am not saying you should wait til marriage but do wait because sex should never be taken lightly.
2007-11-01 17:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Brittny M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont do it. save urself for the right one cause if he is a player he will get what he wants and tell u bye. dont build a relationship on sexual things thats what makes them fall apart i know that from experience and u dont want to go thru that pain and ur only 15 wait till its the right time cause u only get one chance dont mess it up cause if u do u will regret it the rest of ur life cause u will wish that u had saved urself for the right one and when u give it up there aint no going back so think really hard is he the one or not think and pray ab it and than make that decision
2007-11-01 17:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by Raven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It looks like everyone agrees...
I do not think you have to be married to have sex but I think that 14 or even 15 is too young.
almost EVERYONE who does it the first time either really young or with someone they don't care about regrets it for their whole life.
2007-11-01 17:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by PrincessChaos 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Woahh.
I Think You Should WAIT..
cause if yall JUST Started dating.!
and ONLY Being 14.[almost 15]
and if you know hes a player..then why do it.?
cause he MIGHT Leave you After he gets some..
you know??!
2007-11-01 17:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by caitlin l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! look i know that after this you are going to do what ever you want anyways. but i think you answered it already HE IS A PLAYER. he probably have STD's and what if the condom breaks, do you want to live with that your whole life. or even get PRAGO!, and at 15 that never looks good. SO DONT NO IT, have so respect for yourself.
2007-11-01 17:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by jackie b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. There is always a chance that you could get pregnant or other diseases so, I wouldn't Plus sex outside of mairrage is a bad idea. It's a special thin g you do with one special someone.
2007-11-01 17:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by hershey09 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u are nervous you aren't ready. 15 is way too young. and you just started dating him. that's a definite "No"
2007-11-01 17:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by Kayla K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
15 is way to young. and if you know hes a player then dont do it. dont fall into his trap just so he can dump you the next day.
2007-11-01 17:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by kivasiri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way! if he just wants to get in ur pants then u shouldn't do it. thats so wrong. and if hes a player he won't want a relationship. theres a quote: the good guys steal your heart and the bad guys just try to get in ur pants.
2007-11-01 17:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋