Agghh.. So, to start off, my boyfriend just broke up with me.. I had the intention of sort of crying.. and I did a little.. but. I don't know. I thought it would feel worse? It doesn't. We were together since the eighteenth of October. Annnddd... we never really talked. At first, yeah, phone calls everyday. But then he just... stopped?
The worst part is, he made his friend tell me that "It just wasn't gonna work out."
I think that's pretty low.. I at least expected him to tell me face to face. I could handle it. If I cried, damn right he should feel bad! If I didn't, oh well. Life goes on, I breathe and I hang out with other people, things happen. How do you feel about this situation?
2007-11-01 10:06:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOW since the 18th of October huh? I take it you are young? I am glad you did not waste many tears on him, you will find in this life that there will be many more heart breaks and many longer lasting relationships in your life. Save your tears for those. You were wise to let him go. Easy come easy go. Just laugh and get on with life, he is not worth your time who is he to talk about you to anyone if you only "went out" for 2 weeks?
2007-11-01 10:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by teresa m 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are a few reasons why he didnt tell you face to face
1) He is to low to do it himself
2) He was scared you would start crying and he cant handel it when a girl crys
3) He has another gf and he doent want to talk to you anymore
But I feel if he is going to break up with you then he should at least have the balls to do it in person :)
2007-11-01 10:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's right MS KItty:) Life does go on and it get's better...
You don't want a "boy" who can't be mature enough to tell you to you face what needs to be said. The best thing you could ever do is keep your head up, look and smell pretty, be the classy girl/young lady you are, get your education and excell past him..
Living well is the best "pay-back"..As far as how low can you go? Hunn, people can get really low-down...Keep your head-up...
2007-11-01 10:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by sablelemarr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend of a week and a half stopped calling you and you never really talked and he had his friend tell you it wasn't working about. Sounds like you are in middle school. Both of you are figuring out your social lives, give him a break because he's young.
2007-11-01 10:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by Daniel H 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I hold no hard feelings against him for something like that. It's true that he could have dumped you in a more sensitive way, but you were the one who chose to date him. It's part of life so you'll just have to deal with it.
2007-11-01 10:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by Cute little me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hunt him down, corner him, and then twist his nuts with a C clamp until either he passes out or his balls fall off.
2007-11-01 10:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it didnt seem like u really had a very good connection. didnt talk. a very short (to me) relationship. u just need to learn and forget about these things and move on
2007-11-01 10:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by random bailey 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its good that you can look at it in this sort of way. now you can go out with your girlfriends and find another that won't break your heart
good luck giirl <333
2007-11-01 10:12:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The 18th of october.....?
Wow, that's a lifetime!
A whole 13 DAYS!!
2007-11-01 10:09:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
good job yo udidnt cry over it too much. if he didnt want a relationship and he eneded it right away good for him too, but sorry :)
2007-11-01 10:09:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋