I'm talking about boyfriends who tells you to watch what you eat when you're not fat and boyfriends to checks out other girls in front of you and calling them sexy.
Would u be with someone like this?
2007-11-01 09:11:08 · 8 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im sure that he cares about you in the long run and is watching for your best intersts
2007-11-01 09:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally wouldn't be with someone like this, however I have been with someone like this and the more he damaged my self esteem the longer I stayed with him, because I felt so low and unworthy of deserving anything better. It wasn't until I loved and respected myself enough to feel like I deserved better that I left and found better, and now I would never put myself back into such an unsatisfying relationship that destroys myself worth. So the answer is yes. You would be with the person long term if you let them abuse your self esteem enough to where you feel like you can't leave
2007-11-01 09:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can I ask you a serious question ?. Why the hell would you WANT to be with a loser like that ?????. I mean, everyone knows that people who constantly try to put down others are really covering up for their OWN lack of self esteem. By the way, when I said "you", I didn`t really mean " You ", does that make any sense ?, lol.
2007-11-01 09:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by Hondaman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate to tell you this but that is the very reason you are with him. Currently, I would never tell a girl she is fat, even if she is and would never openly look at or flirt with another girl in front of her. That's the reason I've never had a girlfriend...I'm a nice guy/wussass...(I'm changing that though ;)Anyhow, what you are saying is very normal in relationships and I think it is what keeps them strong and together. Just think if he was nice to you all the time and other girls weren't in to him. You don't think he would, but he would loose his appeal quickly. Having competition whether between you and him or you and other girls or even him and other guys keeps him on your mind and vice versa.
2007-11-01 09:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by OuT BaCk KiD 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope no woman worth anything or with any sense would be with a fool like that! That's rude and mean to do to a woman you claim to love. If a woman stays with a guy like that and gets hurt and feels bad abut herself I have little sympathy for her. There are way to damn many guys out here that will not do that crap to the woman we love. So I hope no real woman would be with a guy like that!! =)
2007-11-01 09:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No man leave him, do you really think he cares for you as much as he should if he treats you like that? He isn't worth it, get rid of him and find someone else who would let you eat to your heart's content just to see a smile on your face.
2007-11-01 09:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know this is cliche but it doesn't matter what other people think. you need to find yourself and if you cant then you need to die inside to rise from your own ashes and be who you are if that makes any sense. listen to music- it helps me
2016-05-26 22:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by dona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him how I felt and if he continued then I would dump him.
2007-11-01 09:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋