yeah u dont know me but ill tell u about me
personality : i am quiet and dont get involved easily i have 1 true friend a couple friends i hangout with sometimes..I can be weird and say dumb things im not good at anything..school..work.. u know..like most losers are
i dont go to parties cuz im quiet and no one invites me cuz no one knows me i havent taken the tme to get to know other
looks: i am tall carmel colored hair and skinny as hell probably from not eating.. its what i do when i dont feel good enough. i have nice skin and i think im sort of attractive i hope? i dont know i dont think it changes anything
guys are mean to me and so are some girls the difference is guys are mean to my face and girls talk **** but not to my face.
am i a loser? i do not think so. but apparently others do? and i know its a loser thing to ask on here if i am but i dont want to like ask my like 3 friends i dont know what theyd think
everyone has self doubts..
2007-11-01 08:56:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I wouldnt say loser. Loser is someone, to me that is, that is completly uselsess and a burden on society. Drug addicted, commits crimes, wants hand outs, uses social programs, goes to jail. A loser is someone who's lifestyle affects my life negatively in one way or another.
Perhaps you are just uninteresting. If you are young you are still developing a personality and deciding who you are and who you want to be. Don't take things so seriously, laugh more, be able to look at your faults and try to fix them instead of dwelling on them. Not good at anything? Pick up a hobby, an interest, and do those things in your time off, you will probably meet people with similar interests that you have.
Thing about being young is that you don't realize how meaningless things are until you are older.
And FYI, I had only a few friends in high school. I was pretty but no one paid attention to me as I too was good at nothing. I grew up in this stupid small town with 300 people in the high school (whole school, not my class) that I had known since I was 5 years old. I grew up and moved to California, now I have great friends, have lots of fun and consider myself to be a really cool person.
So you see, things do get better.
2007-11-01 09:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by Leizl 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
on what you are stating here is that you have no self- confidence whatsoever; you say you have the looks but you are too shy. Why don't you make a party yourself and invite some "cool" people; say to them that it will be cool and make them interested. ppl think you are a cool guy but if they feel that you feel sad they will have problems hanging out with you. Modern ppl don't wan't friends anymore who act weird, desolate, strange, different, they seek people who are funny, outgoing, social, these days people just don't like people who are a closed book. I know this will be very hard for you because its hard to change who you are, (i know what you are going trough) if you feel bad about yourself and the life you are going through people whil notice you and occasionaly neglect you. Sry but i can give you one smal advice. Try your very best to love life and yourself, be a bit more outgoing, even waring nice clothes can make people think you are a great person with a great personality. If you feel lonely people won't think you are a nice person, there is no doubt that you are a great person but some people just don't understand you, lol i'm almost in the very same way as you :p
i have bad marks, i am a bi beautiful but very unconfident, and being unconfident is the number one reason why people wont like you.
one tip if you want to be cool and have lots of friends:
- be a complete asshole who shouts at people, be a loud-mouth, neglect people who look like nerds or losers in your eyes, be a hater, a rebel, get a cool haircut, wair modern clothes, look like you are the most confident person in the world, never talk to losers, be social, get the beautiful girls, don't act nerdy or behave yourself in a nerdy way; get some muscles, play techno music, get a beautiful car, never show that you are unhappy, don't wair glaces, act like a person who you aren't, go to the greatest clubs, be a asshole who likes to beat up the losers, gays , weaker people, act like you can take everything in the world; girls only want real "men" and with men i mean: be brutal, an asshole, the best, a hater and so on..
in other words, do you really wanna do all this? if yes then you will be a cool guy who has all the cool friends and the hottest chicks, if no; then i will like you. but one thing is, if you are a loser. Nowone cares for you or me! and with nowone i really mean nothing and nowone cares for you and me (not even an imaginairy God). your life demands that you are an asshole, life wants you to be a complete jerk who only thinks of himself, never act nice to girls , threat them like dirt, from my expirience they seem to like it and i will never understand why. It takes some guts to be cool . Most cool ppl don't believe in God, they beat up other kids, they have great cars. Most ppl who believe in God and that everyone should be threated with respect comes in the other room, the room of the losers. if i were you i would think hard how you want your life to be, because everything we do in life has an effect, doesn't matter how great or smal the choice is. peace my friend... and get some confidence, don't whine about what a loser you are. but show these bastards(="cool" guys) that you can also be cool.
2007-11-01 16:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you are not a loser. You are just shy and quiet. As unfair as it is, the quiet ones often get over looked.
2007-11-01 17:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
losers are people who give up. so dont give up trying to make friends. you are an individual. individuals have a lot more fun then the popular crowd, trust me. if u have friends and go out, thats fine. just be who you are and people will follow.
2007-11-01 17:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your not a loser, You have the guts t ocome in here and ask RIGHT ON!
2007-11-01 16:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First...Do you have a picture of your self? send it to me and then I can tell if you are a loser! kentheo@yahoo.com
2007-11-01 17:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by kentheo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol! YES for even having to ask that qustion on the internet!
2007-11-01 17:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by Gemma M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no your just shy.
2007-11-01 16:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
we don't care
2007-11-01 16:18:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋