i am 13 and have never been kissed. is this normal? am i strange? how do i get a guy to want to kiss me and i want to kiss him? what if he has bad breath? all the kids in my school have kissed some1, wear thongs, and this one 14 years old girl i know fir sure gave this boy head. my 14 year old friend lost her virginity at 12!
2007-11-01 08:14:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be amazed at this..it is not impressive by any means.
There is nothing at all wrong with you because you have yet to kiss someone. Why are you in such a rush for it to happen?
I m sure you have heard this, but you are so young...concentrate on the better things in your life right now.
Kissing, dating, and sex will come..at the right time.
I lost my virginity at the age of 15 and regret it. It was not anything special...and wish I had waited for the "right guy".
Think about your goals in life..waht do you want to be, what do you want to accomplish?
What is happening in your life right now? Concentrate on those things and your studies....lots of time!
2007-11-01 08:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, I can look back on a lot of things when it comes to first kisses, etc. I can honestly tell you that the ones I'm the most proud of are the ones where I took my time and tried to be sure that I WANTED WHAT I WAS doing. You have so many years to become an adult, you don't have to rush it.
I was a virgin at 18. When I met my husband, we were both virgins. When we got divorced 20 years later, the one thing I regretted was that I wouldn't be able to say I'd only ever been with one man. I know - I know, that just sounds crazy. Now, after 12 years of divorce, I can't tell you how many things I've done that I wish I could erase.
Don't be in such a hurry to experience sex and all that goes with it. Once you go there, there is no going back and in 10 years, you'll realize waiting for a few years was nothing. You're more likely to regret doing things too soon than you are regretting waiting until you're older and find a really cool guy to experiment with.
And remember this: In the end, it doesn't matter what other people think - it only matters what you think!
take care....
2007-11-01 08:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by Holly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A first kiss only happens once -- you want it to be with someone special, right? Wait until you find that person, there is no rush! When you find the right person, you won't be worrying about whether they have bad breath or if he wants to kiss you, etc -- the moment will present itself and you will feel comfortable and excited and you'll just know. Your friends will grow up and most likely regret having done what they've done at such an early age, all because they probably felt peer-pressure. You can choose to be a strong person right now, and make a promise to yourself that your first kiss if going to happen when YOU want it to -- not when society and your friends and the guy make you feel like you SHOULD be wanting it to.
2007-11-01 08:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you in such a hurry? You are just BEGINNING your life, don't try and rush so much! I was 15 when I got my first kiss. I know things go faster now, but that's not necessarily good... Don't let friends pressure you into doing things you aren't ready to do. When the time -- and the boy -- is right, you'll know it. And he'll like you a lot more if you haven't already kissed a dozen other boys!
About bad breath -- carry Lifesavors with you. Offer them a lot of times, to everyone, so it won't seem strange when you offer it to a boy you might kiss.
Take your time... and have fun!
2007-11-01 08:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by luvrats 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
don't worry about the little hoochies in your school. Enjoy being a kid. You are only young once. No need to hush into anything. Thongs are over rated and not comfortable. 12 is way way too young to be sexually active. She also might be lying just to sound cool.
2007-11-01 08:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by snowflake311 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im 12 and have never had a b/f or have been kissed!
i hate it!
all the girls at my old school went out with there b/f every friday went to broadway joes {coffe shop} then to a movie and made out! i know a girl that was 13 when she had a baby!
also old people say "Theres still time" but it makes me mad!
i dont want sex but i want a b/f and a kiss
2007-11-01 08:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by Kyndell. <3 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok
chill
ur just not as whoreish as other girls at ur school!
is that a bad thing?
try not to stress out about that so much
enjoy being a "kid" while you can
cause if you get into something serious too soon, you'll end up in a lot of problems and crap.....
just dont rush things
:)
2007-11-01 08:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by fhchik13 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 14 years old and have never even had a boyfriend!!
So yea you ARE NOT alone!!
Just don'tr do anything because everyone else is, and don't give in to peer pressure. Just do what YOU want to do.
2007-11-01 08:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by Ashii Elaine 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal, and i will give you one VERY important piece of advice.
Don't worry about what other kids/people are doing, all it will do is eat you up inside...
You will meet the right person and it will happen naturally.
and as for your friend who had sex at 12, I don't know her, but she needs to revaluate her priorities, sex is way to big of deal to be having it at that age.. hell, she is barely starting puberty?
hang in there, life is long, i had sex for the first time at 15, and i thought i was the last one i knew that did, i was wrong, most of it is all talk..
2007-11-01 08:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by n_maritz 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Those same girls are jumping off the moral cliff this friday! You wanna go join them? Didn't think so... They're giving it away like it doesn't have any value. You're precious for not following in their footsteps. Make a boy/guy earn your heart, don't give it away like it's worthless..
2007-11-01 08:25:15 · answer #10 · answered by Pharm tech 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋