I recently posted a question asking y he hasnt called. I now know.. he's being trying to get with my best friend. She called me on 3way so I can hear the whole thing. I'm so crushed, she told him he was a dog for trying to hit on her and he dont deserve me. (She didn't accept his offer) All the quality time we spent, and his little I love you note were just a lie. He's knows that I havent really given to many guys the time of day since my first true love was murdered, but i took a chance 2 date agian and again I get hurt. He told her that he and I weren't serious and that he also has about 2-3 other girls he talking to and he wants to talk to her as well. He asked that she not tell me wat happend.She laughed at him said he's an asshole and hung up.
Wat do I do... should we both bust himshould I do it alone , or should i pretend that I know nothing and just break up with him. I have never been in this situation before
2007-11-01 06:38:29 · 16 answers · asked by Gifted and Gracious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry for your loss.
Perhaps you are picking the wrong type of guy... many girls like the bad boys.. the ones who seem more exciting, and the ones who are trouble... players.
You k now, some people aren't prepared to get into a serious relationship, so if you meet someone you really like, they may not have a committment in mind. I guess that when you meet someone, taking your time to explore their world and find out whether they want a steady relationship or not is a good idea.
Just break up with him.. it's the most dignified and lady like thing to do. take care ok?
2007-11-01 06:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a guy... and the one thing I would NEVER do is hit on my girlfriend's best friend. Girl's talk a lot more than guys do and obviously your best friend's gonna talk to you about what he's been saying. Kid doesn't sound too bright or else he never would have done what he did- I say mess with him for a while and drop hints about your best friend etc... Call him out on checking her out when you guys are together for the next week or so. Then, have HER call him and agree to go out one night... Go with her to the restaurant or whatever, have him come in to see the both of you sitting their and there's your satisfaction. I can't stick up for a guy who's as dumb as this one... so enjoy the freedom and payback :)
2007-11-01 06:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Brooklyn Zueee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu have to be more strong you are lucky that you got a really good friend. Talk to him and tell him that what was he trying to do with your friend. You deserve someone really good. I am so sorry to hear about your past but things happens for a reason. God only creates problem for those people who he love because he know they will pass his test of pain. So be strong and if you want to talk to me email me. Hope this went okay. He is not good for you if he is hitting on your friend he is probably doing it with other girls too.
2007-11-01 06:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not the one 4 u
2007-11-01 06:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by tinkerbell 4 life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your breath on him! Move on! There is more out there in the sea! Yes, you might get your heart broke again! But that's life and you will only get strong and learn from the past! Sorry, about your true love!
2007-11-01 06:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easier said than done, but if you can...don't bother giving him the time of day. Even if you do care, pretend you don't! Unfortunately, people thrive off reactions and if they don't get one they will leave you alone. If you care about him so much, then you need to reevaluate to see how much he cares about you if he is doing this to you. Which I am going to tell you, he doesn't care about you like you do him.
2007-11-01 06:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a firm believer in karma, so I don't think you need a drastic revenge to get your way. He'll get what he's asking for. They always do.
Just break up with him. It's easier just to cut it off. You don't owe him an explanation after what he's done to you. He'll figure it out on his own.
2007-11-01 07:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to friend of mine too... Her boyfriend was trying to hook up with my ex...
Prescription: A heavy dose of his own medicine!
She ended up being with me for a bit, he came crawling back to her real quick...
Boyfriends come and go, friends will always be there for you... Go ahead, bust him together, put him in a spot, belittle him, make him realize what he had was good and he messed it all up. Then find someone who will treat you 10x better than he did.
2007-11-01 06:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by Pharm tech 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he wants to date multiple people
then don't try to act like he's your "bf"
just so he can use you.
Then don't talk to him anymore
and meet somebody better.
P.S.
I'm VERY sorry that your original bf got murdered!
Hugz,
~Andy
2007-11-01 06:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by andybosik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
than if he wants 2 go out with your best friend then he is not the guy for find another one n go out with that boy.
2007-11-01 06:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by jackie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋