There is this girl that i care about but, she doesn't feel the same way. What do i do? I've tried to move on but, it hurts so much seeing her alone everyday with no friends. I've tried talking to her but she isn't extremly social at all. I see her 3 or 4 times a day in the hall and every now and then she'll be with someone but almost never. Just seeing her face when going to class makes me go nuts. I care about her so much and she doesn't believe me, or she doesn't care. I have no clue what to do, or how to even approach her to talk with out getting all nervous. I just find it so hard to walk away and dismiss these feelings as nothing and she's so willing just to turn her back and walk away. I don't know if it's even worth the frustration of having to go threw this emotionaly any more. I torture myself all the time over her. During class when I'm bored, right now, at work, when I hear a semi romantic song on the radio I immediantly remember her and start thinking of her again.
2007-11-01 06:37:12 · 8 answers · asked by starcraft961 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's just so hard to let go of her. We never had any relationship at all and I'm going nuts over her. I just don't know how to deal with these feelings I have for her. I can't even say what I want to her. I'll go up to her and have it all planned out what i want to tell her but, before I'm done talking it just seems that everything gets lost before it even comes out. I just end up looking like an idiot and bothering her when she doesn't want to be bothered I think. I noticed that she started sitting in the libary before school starts and I don't know if I should continue ignoring her trying to get her off my mind (hasn't worked yet) or if i should try to talk to her. It's just so crazy, I almost want to believe that life might not be worth it cause I cause myself so much pain. Words don't describe how I feel, I barely know her but I swear i would die for her. I just wish that thier was some way i could prove to her that what i'm saying is true and not a lie.
What should I do? HELP!!!!
2007-11-01 06:45:30 · update #1
Thanks all.
Thanks alot, this sounds really whimpy but, I actually just started to cry when I saw how much you people actually are willing to help.
Thanks again.
2007-11-01 06:50:03 · update #2
Ask her out....and keep bugging the crap out of her til she says yes.She sounds like she has no idea how you feel about her.Step up and tell her!!!Don't live with regret when you could be going out with her right this minute!
2007-11-01 06:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it sounds like she has some issues. If you must, just be her friend. Don't say that your madly in love with her or anything like that, or try to tell her how much you care about her. To be honest she needs a friend, and not a boyfriend. I don't know her past at all, but I would guess, but what you said, that she may have some deep seated issues that you don't know about. And it's totally ok to have feelings for her, sometimes it;s hard to deny them, and really you shouldn't, but don't but them on a platter like you are. The reason being that you will get hurt easier, and the last thing you want to do is drag yourself through the mud. Hope this helps.
-Ty
2007-11-01 13:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by Tyler C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, I have a best friend going though the same thing as you. I told her to move on, she loves her boyfriend so much she will do anything to keep him by her side forever. She keeps telling me over and over again "i can't live without him......I love him to much." I found out that her boyfriend is trying to break up with her without breaking her heart. The way i told her is to let him go...."you have to leave him sometime." So she only has one friend and that's me. Her boyfriends friend told me that he is going to cheat on her till she could not take it any longer. Maybe this can help you maybe it can't. This is only half of the story. I can help you I have been in this same spot you are standing in right now. Trust me on this.
2007-11-01 13:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by koolcat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness... I almost cried when I read this. I wish someone felt that way about me!
The best thing I can say it give it time. Girls are stubborn and to me it just sounds like she likes to be alone. I would try talking to her and say "I'm just going to come out and say this..." and tell her exactly what you said above.
Now I know it will be hard but I act just lke her and if someone came up to me and said that I would probably break down right there... just try it.
What can you lose?
2007-11-01 13:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by Kelsey S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u try 2 explain 2 her how u feel about her. if u did an she seems like she dont care then i would suggest that u just get over her because it very much seems like shes in her on lil world if shes really not social.
2007-11-01 13:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by Nay Nay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't have any friends, maybe she just doesnt believe you and thinks ur taking the piss cos she isnt used to that sort of attention.
You love her. Dont give up trying! <3
2007-11-01 13:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her about it, and if she turns you down again, it's her fault, you sound like an amazing guy
2007-11-01 13:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her-she doesn't care.
2007-11-01 13:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by berlytea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋