Obviously you don't want to appear too easy - but is there a fine line?
2007-11-01 06:35:00 · 73 answers · asked by Éan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like 6 months.
2007-11-01 06:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by The M 3 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Sounds like a cheesy answer, but whenever you feel right. Sleeping on first date does it make you 'easy', waiting 6 months does not mean the guy loves you either. If it's something you want to do, there should be no regrets. But generally not the first few dates. I don't understand, you really like the guy and want to sleep with him but don't want to appear too easy? Or you worry the guy would lose interest if you keep him waiting too long?
2007-11-01 06:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by dadayiu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what type of relationship your looking for.
If your just looking for a good time with one person for a limited time then anytime.
If one the other hand your looking for a serious relationship, then at least a few months OR not until you get married.
Having sex early in a relationship usually results in a failled one. This is because the guy feels like your easy and can then use you at will. Waiting a while (a few months or more) lets the relationship develop a bit more. If I'm looking for a woman to eventually marry, I want to get to know her without having sex when I first meet her.
2007-11-01 06:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever she feels ready, dont feel pressurised into doing something that you dont want to, however i also think its stupid to sleep with someone if you've just met them, however if the boyfriend and the girlfriend are both ready and willing then go for it. If the boyfriend is pressurising then he's an idiot, but i think you should get to know someone before you sleep with them, then you wont regret it or feel that you rushed into it, give yourselves time to know each other properly,(whether it be 3 months or a year) if in the waiting process you find that the boyfriend is an idiot then you'll have had a lucky escape. If you meet a different guy and jump into bed with them straightaway then thats not saying much for you. Guys will respect the fact that you want to wait, if not then they are a loser!! everybody is different but as long as you feel comfortable then it should be ok! never do anything that you dont want to!
2007-11-01 06:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by Iѕαвєℓℓα... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really is no time limit... it depends on the individuals involved. If you want my advice, I would tell you to take your time. Dont ever be pressure into doing something you're not comfortable doing, and be sure about yourself.
If you're religous, know what your religious believes truly are, and most important know for sure that you can trust your partner. Many couples make the mistake of putting a time limit on when to sleep with each other before they analyse these important factors. These day in age more than ever you gotta be careful with who you sleep with, when you decide on the perfect time, make sure that you're not thinking emotionally, set your priorities straight so that you wont do something you'll regret. Making love is a beautiful thing, just be smart about it.
2007-11-01 07:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by la mai' tuya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the people that gave "Married" as an answer are either parents or just aren't realistic. Honestly, there aren't going to be many guys that are going to wait to get married. It's just the nature of things. Guys aren't evil, we were just created this way. Girls were created the same way, I just think they can subdue the urge more then guys.
It doesn't have to be the first date, but if you feel like it is thats fine.
I don't know exactally when is a good time, but you should be able to tell.
Just know this...this applies to almost all guys...they won't wait till marriage
2007-11-01 06:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by Joseph L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you should wait until you feel comfortable with him and like him enough as a person to do this. There really is no rule on how long a girl should wait...its up to you. Ask yourself this Do i like him enough to sleep with him? Will i feel comfortable afterward knowing that i slept with him? If u dont want to appear to be easy wait a few weeks....from my experience guys like it when u make them wait....its more of a challenge to them...and very much worth the wait. But remember its up to you and what you feel comfortable with. Have fun!
2007-11-01 06:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by Lady B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in general, a month or two is ok. Obviously it depends on how experienced you are and your age. Me and my boyfriend waited 6 months as I was a virgin (and 18). If i was a few years older, more experienced, 2 months seems pretty reasonable to me. You could still do 'other stuff' before having sex, i would wait a month for that really.
2007-11-01 06:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be obvious to you, but, not to others. What is too easy? If you enjoy this guy's company and you take reasonable precautions there should be no problem. If being too easy is a real concern you should wait untill you grow up.
Many opinions on this subject expected as there are many backgrounds in everyone's upbringing. Just set your own standards and adjust them as needed.
2007-11-01 06:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by W. K. P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait long enough to really get to know the person. Think of it this way, don't sleep with someone you can't see yourself having a baby with. That will save you a lot of trouble in the long run. The longest I ever waited to be with a guy was 2 months, and even that didn't feel like long enough. Basically, you are saving yourself from having regrets later, and you know that he is interested in you and not just in getting in your panties.
2007-11-01 06:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by bonstermonster20 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a guy's point of view... regardless of sex, the relationship needs to be of a physical aspect or else the relationship will turn into friendship and that's when you fall into the "friend zone". It sucks but it's true...
I'd say anywhere from 3 weeks to 3 months... somewhere in that timeframe and it's all based on how things are moving as well.
2007-11-01 06:39:15 · answer #11 · answered by Brooklyn Zueee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋