why am i so jaleous?

Question

i hate that about myself...Im a girl and i cant have girlfriends,because i feel so jaleous of them:( its not even jaleousy i dont know how to call it...i feel so...ugly, worthless, stupid etc when im around sumone who looks grate and is grate. I mean i would never go behind their backs an talk bad about them, but i just feel so bad next to those ppl. so im hanging out with sum girls who are...well, not even fun, but at least i dont feel ugly with them...I dont know, today i ate with this girl from college, shes tall, dark beautifull...but shes not superficial at all shes pretty cool and fun...but i just cant chill out when im next to her, because im tryng to not say anything stupid, i try to be interesting and so on. I would LOVE to have FUN girlfriends, do all that girly stuff with them and so on, but i just cant because i get jaleous, and i try to be like they are...but i cant:( im not fun, not spontaneous, and i think its sumthing i cant change. Im desperate:(

Answer 1

Self esteem is difficult because it builds on itself. Once you get a little, you can get a little bit more, then a bit more and so on. You can't just get loads of self esteem all at once. So start doing something that makes you feel good. Go to the gym, or start taking dance lessons, or join a bowling league, or whatever you want, as long as you like it and it makes you feel good. Avoid things that make you feel bad, and if that means that you can't hang out with these people you're talking about, then do it. Its not going to get better on its own, you have to take an active stance on this.
Good luck, you can do it.

Answer 2

First of all, don't listen to that lady that said your spelling was appalling. She's stupid. Take Hans B's advice. He's smarter and nicer, obviously.

You also might want to watch this:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=_b1GKGWJbE8

Answer 3

you need to build your self image, and the best way to do that is by applying yourself to your school work, you need to do that anyway, your spelling is appalling. But if you can do something, anything, really well, then you can build on that and build up your self esteem.