i have a boyfriend and we are getting ready to "take a break" from our relationship. and i have been talking to this guy for awhile he wants to hook up. and i feel the same way, just want to hook up with no strings attached. but the problem is he happens to be my boyfriends worst enemy. should i hook up with him or not?
2007-11-01 05:56:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he HAS slept with my worst enemy.
2007-11-01 06:12:33 · update #1
i doubt its worth it. it would hurt your boyfriend loads and he might never let it go. the worst enemy probably would only do it to make your boyfriend jealous - do you want to be his tool?
by all means see some one else while on a break but id go for some one more neutral..... who means nothing to your boyfriend
hope this helps good luck :)
2007-11-01 06:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That would be WRONG you said you and your boyfriend want to take a BREAK not break up. But if you choose to hook up as you call it with his worst enemy then you might as well break up with your boyfriend now. Because I can tell you right now if you hook up with the other guy. Then your boyfriend finds out which he will .He will break up and it won't be just a break it will be for good. You will ruin any chance you have of being with your boyfriend again. ..Besides sounds to me like you might not get him back anyhow if he finds out that you have been taling to the other guy and talked about hooking up with him. .
2007-11-01 13:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by dollbaby2407 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
an NSA hookup with your bf's enemy? I'll already label you as a s__t for doing the NSA thing.
There are no breaks. Either you're together or not. That's it. No grey areas, those only make a real break up more drawn out and difficult.
Oh yea, BTW....not all guys only want a fling, so don't assume I'm applying a double-standard. NSA flings are for the S__ts of the world.
2007-11-01 13:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by chaoss13 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not if you still want to be with your dude you need to figure out if you are breaking up or taking a break and you should never have been talking to his enemy in the first place i would advice a break up hell i would break up with you if i knew you were talking to my enemy
2007-11-01 13:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if this 'take a break' is another phrase for we're done, then be my guest, but if your current bf wants to get back at one point, then dont do it. it wouldn't seem right if your taking a break from your bf then your going out with his worst enemy.
2007-11-01 13:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sweety 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, youre getting ready to split with your boyfriend and hopefully you want to work things out with him, you dont want to ruin that by sleeping with his enemy yet! wait a few months till things between you and your bf have settled. and only if you and your bf have split for good.
2007-11-01 13:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by Lemon85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love, respect, and care about your boyfriend enough, don't do it. there are other guys you can have a connection and hook up with if you want to go that route...
2007-11-01 13:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by blackoil 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should hook up if you want the bf break to be permanent.
2007-11-01 13:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by Don 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not unless you want the boyfriends friend to think of you as a slut once he gets it and only if you don't want a boyfriend anymore. Remember, once this is over, you have to live w/ your decision and if you have to ask us...then don't. Good luck.
2007-11-01 13:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by lamonross80 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i did that to my ex! and listen to what i said, EX!
well this guy was his "friend" but secretly hated each other. they both would talk about each other. anyway, my bf cheated on me so i decided to get back at him. it feels really good at the moment but trust me it will hit you. if you want to be with your bf still, DON'T DO IT!! if he finds out that's it. no more trust just hate! i know how it feels. i used to like that guy a lot and figured oh well, we're not together, it wont hurt him but yeah it hurt me more when he was calling me a whore! so dont do it if there's still hope of you guys being together, trust me its not worth it.
2007-11-01 13:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋