and lets say your 26 and he was just turning 21.....??? lol
2007-11-01 05:15:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow there is mixed answers, lol i just dont know....both have very good points.
2007-11-01 05:20:49 · update #1
irish- you are so right on
2007-11-01 05:22:39 · update #2
That's how I met my (now) husband. I am 12 years younger than him. I love work romances, it's so thrilling!
2007-11-01 05:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by dontknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy that I worked with - it was so good when we were secretly dating! It was really fun and exciting cuz we were the only ones who knew. I worked in a cube with another lady and he had called from him cube a few too many times and she asked what the heck was going on - the cat was out of the bag after she knew! It went downhill and we actually kept dating for a few years, even after I left that job. We weren’t meant to be so it didnt work out - I don’t think it’s a good idea to date at work since break-ups make it weird.
BTW, the younger man is wonderful, also dated a 24 year old when i was 29 and he was great! I went into it knowing that we were not going to the chapel to get married so i had fun with it. He was awesome in bed and made me feel great for the time we were together!!!
2007-11-01 05:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have hooked up with someone at work, quite a few times (different jobs) and although it can be fun, I wouldn't always recommend it. If things turn sour the work environment because strained and things become wierd. If you two are both mature enough to handle whatever may happen between you then go for it.
2007-11-01 05:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by morbidlybeautiful 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can honestly tell you that I have done this, and it was real uncomfortable in the end. It is never a good idea to do this, unless you plan on marrying this person\. I mean your coworkers will start talking and suppose you break up, later it will be really uncomfortable for you and him as well as your coworkers. It just gets messy. Try to avoid it, or look into finding another job before you go ahead with it
2007-11-01 05:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am currently seeing someone I work with. We keep it on the d.l. and only 2 people know. At work we don't do anything cept once he pulled me back where no one could see to kiss me.
we've been seeing each other for about a month now. I only work with him 2 days out of the week so it gets me all reved up to get all cute for work and to be able to shoot him that firty glance.
just be careful. So places frown on interoffice romances so if they have a strict policy you might want to STEER CLEAR cause you both can lose your job. If the policy is lax I'd say go for it. :-D
2007-11-01 05:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by Genevieve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have hooked up with a few guys at work and at one time i was seeing two guys that i worked with at the same time....i know kinda slutty but it was fun and nobody got hurt it didnt affect my job or anything at all and i still talk to those guys now and its been like a year now....i say go for it have fun but if it gets uncomfortable then end it...no big deal.....oh and if someone asked me if i would do it again? i would for sure hahahahahahaha :)
2007-11-01 05:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hooked up with my now husband at work. It's doable, but you kinda have to watch out for office gossip. And make sure you're very professional in front of other people, since it might cost you a promotion, or worse, your job.
2007-11-01 05:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Causes to much drama...plus where I work is like a giant high school...people are always gossiping and always in other people's business. I don't like people I work with to know to much about my personal life, but that is just me. If you are into everyone knowing your business...then go for it. Just remember that if things go sour and you end up breaking up...you'll have to see this person every day at work.
2007-11-01 05:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by ~irish~moon~star~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when we work alot, it makes it convenient to hook up with a coworker. But, when you break up, most people regret it, because there is always office gossip plus the person you dated might be adding to those rumors. I would skip it.
2007-11-01 05:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person I've worked with that I ever even considered that possibility with was married and therefore off limits. None of the others hold any interest with me outside of professional relationships.
2007-11-01 05:22:06 · answer #10 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steer cleer you dont want to bring your personal life to the office. what happens if you break up what would you do if this person starts telling everyone about your secrets that you would only want your partner to know. Its bad news plus it makes everyone else feel uncomfortable if you guys get in an argument
2007-11-01 05:19:54 · answer #11 · answered by willmiller82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋